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Discovering the Repressed Parts of Yourself Through Shadow Work and Journaling
Shadow Work: Exploring the Parts of Yourself You’ve Hidden
By Suzannah
Shadow work has been a transformative part of my healing, and I’m here to share more about it.
It has occurred to me that in almost every self-help article, book, or YouTube video, there are a few recurring themes: writing in a journal, finding a sense of spirituality, and consistently practicing mindfulness.
But what do you write about? What if you’re a straight-up atheist? What even is mindfulness?
I get it. I’ve been there, too. There’s still hope.
What Is Shadow Work?
To understand shadow work, one must first understand the “shadow.” The shadow is the part of ourselves we repress—the part we feel ashamed of, ignore in ourselves, and instinctively despise in others. However, this part of us isn’t necessarily negative. Often, it is simply a natural part of the self that we’ve been taught is unacceptable from an early age.
When we cried as children, we were hushed. When we wore what made us happy, we were teased. Even societal rules about covering our bodies can contribute to unconscious rejection of our innate selves. These early rejections can lead to shame and cause us to reject our individuality and creativity—and to unconsciously judge others who freely embrace what we’ve learned to hide.
Carl Jung, the father of analytical psychology, identified the shadow as an archetype of the psyche. He believed that if we continuously reject the shadow, we become overly concerned with the thoughts of others and develop shallow, imbalanced versions of ourselves, prone to unhealthy projections and denial of our humanity. Without embracing the shadow, we can never fully realize our potential.
This philosophy is not exclusive to Jung; it appears in Taoism as Yin and Yang, in Buddhism as The Middle Way, and in various cosmic dualities of Greek mythology. The core lesson is balance.
Integrating the Shadow
Integrating the shadow into daily life is not easy. Shadow work is emotionally heavy and requires acceptance, understanding, and self-reflection.
Remember how I said that journaling is a common self-help recommendation? That’s a major tool for shadow work.
Shadow Work & Journaling
There is no right or wrong way to journal. You don’t even need a physical journal—you can use a computer, voice recordings, or anything that feels comfortable. I prefer writing by hand because it feels more personal, and I can always destroy the pages if I want (I’m only half joking—please don’t become an arsonist).
A helpful way to begin journaling is to start with an intention. Sometimes I meditate briefly before writing to see what comes up naturally. Your intention might be to explore what’s holding you back, confront what you’ve been avoiding, or create a safe space to be fully yourself.
Then, free-write. Write without judgment—don’t worry about grammar, spelling, or making sense. This is for you, not anyone else. Set a timer for 5–10 minutes and let the words flow. Doing this for several days in a row, then revisiting your entries, can reveal recurring themes. You may be surprised by what emerges.
You can also use shadow work prompts, such as:
- What triggers me, and why?
- What qualities do I dislike in others?
- What am I afraid to reveal about myself?
- When do I feel shame, and what does that teach me?
- What am I avoiding in my life right now?
- Who or what do I judge harshly, and why?
Shadow Work: Spirituality & Mindfulness
Spirituality and mindfulness are often listed as core parts of self-help, but shadow work can encompass both.
Jung’s theories of the collective unconscious—a deeper layer of the mind shared by everyone—connect shadow work to universal human experiences like anger, lust, fear, and vulnerability. Integrating your shadow brings awareness of shared humanity, which can feel spiritual even for the non-religious.
Mindfulness also applies directly. Noting the existence of our shadow is an exercise in deep self-awareness. Understanding our emotions, desires, and patterns—and staying aware of these realizations—is at the heart of mindfulness.
The Power of Shadow Work
Shadow work encourages you to embrace both your light and your darkness. Be delicate and ferocious, light and dark, yin and yang. This is the essence of being human. By exploring and integrating your shadow, you cultivate authenticity, growth, wisdom, acceptance, and ultimately, happiness.
References
- The Jungian Model of the Psyche | Journal Psyche
