Learn the essential principles for building lasting professional communities. Discover why delegating value kills engagement, how to handle vendors responsibly, and why the best events thrive without rigid agendas.
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About Alaina
Alaina Lamberson is an API Integration Specialist and Prompt Engineer at Portable, based in New York City, where she focuses on helping data teams connect, evolve, and use data from the systems that power their businesses. With a background in finance and early experience in mutual funds at Lord Abbett, she transitioned into SaaS and data after discovering a passion for client-facing work and technology-driven problem solving. She attended Eastern Washington University, where she studied finance, accounting, and economics, entering college early through the Running Start program. In her current role, Alaina works across go-to-market strategy, community building, and data integration initiatives, helping shape how companies think about data pipelines and business analytics. She previously worked at ThoughtSpot in analytics and visualization, where she developed a deeper understanding of how organizations leverage insights. At Portable, she also contributes to building a growing data community, including hosting roundtables and events that bring practitioners together to share challenges and best practices. Alaina is known for her curiosity-driven, collaborative approach and her focus on building resilient and meaningful data foundations for organizations. She is passionate about improving how businesses handle increasingly complex data ecosystems, especially in the era of AI. Outside of work, she enjoys hiking, snowboarding, and live music, and is energized by opportunities to connect with people building impactful systems and ideas.
Her Interview
Ten minutes with Alaina
01What do you attribute your success to?
Early in my career, I got hired at Lord Abbott because one person handed me an email address. I didn't wait for a formal introduction or a perfect moment -- I just used it. I got into SaaS by striking up a conversation with a stranger during an airport layover. That's just how I operate: I put myself out there, and I stay open to where things lead.
The other thing I'd attribute my success to is genuinely investing in the people around me. I've been building and running a data community in NYC, not because it was in my job description, but because I believe most opportunities come from the connections you build over time. Anyone who reaches out to me and asks for an introduction gets one. So many people have taken bets on me, and paying that forward isn't just something I value, it's something I consistently do.
02What’s the best career advice you’ve ever received?
Nobody tells you this early enough: you will never feel fully ready, and waiting until you do is the surest way to fall behind. The best move I ever made was sending a message I wasn't sure would land, taking a meeting I didn't feel qualified for, starting a community before I knew if anyone would show up.
Perfection is a trap. It gives you a reason to wait, and waiting kills momentum. Fail fast, learn faster. The people who move and adjust in motion will always outrun the ones still polishing their plan.
03What advice would you give to young women entering your industry?
Data and tech can make you feel like your credentials need to speak first. They don't. The people who stand out in this industry aren't just the most technical ones in the room. They're the ones who can build relationships, communicate value, and make other people want to work with them. Develop both sides.
Don't wait to be invited to the table. Build your own. I started a community years ago with no playbook and no guarantee anyone would show up. That community has opened more doors for me than any job application ever did.
And yes, you will sometimes be the only woman in the room. Use it. You're more memorable, you have a perspective nobody else has, and the bar for leaving an impression is lower than you think. Don't shrink. That's exactly when you should take up more space.
04What are the biggest challenges or opportunities in your field right now?
Data teams are being asked to do more with fewer people. Headcount is shrinking, expectations aren't, and that changes everything about how teams evaluate tools and prioritize investments. The products that win right now are the ones that reduce friction fast and deliver value without requiring a team of engineers to maintain them.
In ecommerce specifically, the fragmentation problem is real and largely unsolved. Brands are sitting on data they can't actually use because the underlying infrastructure was never built correctly. Getting the pipes right isn't glamorous work, but it's the foundation everything else depends on.
And on the GTM side, buyers are more skeptical and more educated than they've ever been. Generic outreach doesn't work. The opportunity is for people who can show up with genuine expertise, speak the language of the person across the table, and demonstrate value before asking for anything. That's a higher bar, but it's also a real advantage if you've actually done the work.
05What values are most important to you in your work and personal life?
Giving back is at the center of everything I do. Professionally, that looks like building community, making introductions, and creating spaces where people can learn from each other. Personally, it runs a lot deeper. Within the next five years, I want to open foster homes in the US. I've seen firsthand how much a support system matters, and I want to help build that for kids who need it most.
Outside of work I'm happiest when I'm moving. Whether that's hiking through somewhere new, catching a live show in New York, or booking a flight somewhere I've never been. Travel and nature keep me grounded in a way nothing else does. Most recently I spent two weeks in Istanbul and it reminded me why I keep going.
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Articles by Alaina
Why Most Professional Communities Fail (And What Keeps People Coming Back)
How to build communities that people actually want to join—and keep coming back to.
I’ve been hosting professional events for three years. In that time, I’ve run intimate gatherings, virtual roundtables, and everything in between. I’ve watched other communities launch with fanfare and disappear within six months. I’ve also seen the ones that last grow steadily—without big budgets or dedicated teams—because the organizers learned a few things the hard way.
Most recently, I joined Portable, a data integration platform, where I’ve been running small-group virtual roundtables for ecommerce data leaders. Getting into the rhythm of a format that was already working taught me as much as building something from scratch. What I’ve learned across both experiences comes down to a few things nobody talks about honestly.
Here’s what keeps people coming back.
You Can’t Delegate the Value
The biggest mistake I see community builders make is putting too much of the work on the people they’re trying to attract. If you’re asking people to work for the privilege of joining your community, you’ve already lost.
Your job as the organizer is to make showing up the easiest decision someone makes that week. You own the logistics, the venue, the framing, and the reason to come.
Don’t recruit volunteers to carry the load you signed up for.
If you need an intake form, keep it short: name, company, maybe one qualifying question. The moment you start asking people to do your job for you, you lose them.
The Vendor Problem Is Real
There’s a reason conferences like NRF keep vendors on the expo floor and restrict speaker sessions to all-access badge holders. The moment people feel like they’re being sold to, trust evaporates. They stop being honest. They start performing. The whole point of a community—real conversations between people facing the same challenges—falls apart.
I’ve also seen the paid 1:1 meeting model play out at large events. One person gets their badge comped in exchange for sitting through back-to-back meetings. The other person pays for access and walks in already at a disadvantage, because the person across the table would rather be at the conference.
Nobody wins.
The meeting feels transactional because it is.
Non-sponsored, vendor-neutral spaces are harder to fund and harder to justify on a spreadsheet. They’re also the only ones people genuinely want to be part of.
The Best Events Have No Agenda
I know that sounds counterintuitive. But the events people talk about the longest are the ones where the conversation just flows.
I come prepared with questions to guide things if the energy stalls, but when you get the right people in the room, they moderate themselves.
The job isn’t to program every minute.
The job is to curate who’s in the room—and create the conditions for something real to happen.
That’s true whether you’re hosting a data happy hour in Manhattan or a virtual roundtable on Google Meet. Format matters less than curation.
To the Vendors and Sales Reps Reading This
I know what you’re thinking:
“What’s the point if I can’t close a deal?”
It’s called building goodwill with your buyers.
Not every interaction needs to convert.
Show up. Add value. Don’t pitch.
Do that consistently, and something shifts.
People refer others to your community. New conversations open up. And yes, sometimes someone asks about your services—not because you pushed, but because you earned it.
That’s how it works.
You put value into the room, and over time, it finds its way back.
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