Amelia Wohrle, General Manager on Influential Women

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Amelia Wohrle

General Manager, TOCA Social

The Colony, TX

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Her Story

About Amelia

I'm responsible for leading a team and providing them with the skills and resources to have them feel empowered to make decisions to then support their teams. I provide clear strategic direction to hit those benchmarks that are set forth for us, and create a vision for the team to feel successful around. Creating an environment that feels safe and comfortable for people to be themselves and provide feedback is really important - it's a people-oriented business. As the leader, I build an environment where people feel like they can express themselves and create a work environment that feels great for everybody. In the day-to-day, you're doing 100 different things a day - you might be a dishwasher for 20 minutes and setting up for an event the next hour, then reviewing a P&L over the next hour and reviewing schedules. Every day brings a new opportunity to find ways to support the people that are choosing to be there with you.

Her Interview

Ten minutes with Amelia

01What do you attribute your success to?

I definitely attribute my success to the teams around me. I've had some really great leaders in my past that have taken the time to soften my rough edges and explain things maybe 2 or 3 times for me to make sure that I really understand. That patient, servant leadership has really been a foundation for how I lead, and also supported my growth and development over the years. The people choosing to work alongside me, for me, with me, in partnership with me have been instrumental in shaping who I am now.

02What advice would you give to young women entering your industry?

I would tell young women to always scream at the mountaintops the goals that you have for yourself. Tell everybody, always make sure people know what you want so that they can support you in getting there. The quieter we are, the less opportunity presents itself for us, especially as women. I, for many years, was the only Black woman in a position with 90 to 100 other people, all being men. Being in that space and still shining and being asked to be a representation of people, there can be a lot of weight with that, so I would tell this girl to trust herself and know that she's in these rooms because she asked to be, not because she waited for somebody to tell her to be.

03What are the biggest challenges or opportunities in your field right now?

I think being empathetic and creating safe spaces is critical - without that, people feel limited in the growth potential in this space. There's a lot of fear or concern for being different in the hospitality space than what we're used to. Experiential dining is making a massive impact on someone's life, both the person working there and the guest that arrives. Without that safe space for people to find joy in what they're either doing for work or the experience that they're having, it doesn't work anymore. I think coming over that hump and finding new ways to engage the people that are working for you and the guests that are coming in the door, and letting go of this older regimen of saying no and not being able to find the yes for people - I think that is probably our greatest challenge right now.

04What values are most important to you in your work and personal life?

Clear expectations are definitely important to me, and excellence is something people would probably describe as a value of mine - not necessarily high expectations, but being excellent at whatever level you're capable of delivering at. Doing it at your very best is really important to me. Teamwork, or as my brand would say, one team working together for one common goal at all levels - we can support this goal maybe in different ways, but we all show up the same and make a decision together. Caring and empathy are definitely close to my heart. I believe that everybody wants to do their best every day, and if something's different, I want to create this space for them to express why it's different today and not point fingers. Just being kind and having fun would probably be the last two. When I think about my personal life, it's important for me to raise a daughter who's also very kind, and we must have fun in life.

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