Her Story
About Jessie
I’m a proud military spouse, mom, and payments professional with more than 13 years of experience across the payments and fintech industry. Originally from Wilmington, North Carolina, I’ve had the opportunity to live in eight states over the past 15 years while continuing to build a fulfilling career in an industry I’m passionate about.
Throughout each move and every new chapter, I’ve been grateful to grow alongside some of the most innovative companies and partners in payments. Those experiences have shaped me into a resilient, adaptable leader who values collaboration, integrity, and building meaningful relationships.
Above all, I’m passionate about proving that career success and a fulfilling personal life don’t have to be mutually exclusive. I hope my journey encourages other women, military spouses and/or working parents to believe they can build a career they love while embracing the life that’s uniquely theirs.
Her Interview
Ten minutes with Jessie
01What do you attribute your success to?
I attribute my success to resilience, adaptability, and having a genuine passion for the work I do. Throughout my career, I’ve balanced the demands of a fast-paced industry with raising a family and supporting my husband’s military career.
Over the past 15 years, we’ve moved eight times and navigated multiple deployments, each requiring me to adapt, rebuild my network, and continue growing professionally despite constant change.
Being a military spouse has taught me how to embrace uncertainty, remain resourceful, and find opportunities in every new chapter. Those experiences have made me a stronger leader, partner, and problem solver.
I’m especially proud that I’ve been able to build a meaningful career while also being present for my family. Military spouses are often underemployed because frequent moves make career continuity incredibly challenging. I’ve been fortunate to find opportunities within the payments industry that have allowed me to take my career with me, continue building on my experience, and grow into new roles with each move.
If my journey can inspire another military spouse to believe that it’s possible to build both a fulfilling career and a fulfilling family life, that would be one of my greatest accomplishments.
02What’s the best career advice you’ve ever received?
The best career advice I’ve ever received is that no paycheck is worth your sanity.
Early in my career, like many ambitious professionals, I believed success meant always pushing for the next promotion, taking on more, and never slowing down. Over time, I realized that a successful career isn’t just about climbing the ladder—it’s about building a life that you genuinely enjoy.
That perspective has become even more meaningful as a working mom and military spouse. Balancing a career through multiple deployments, eight moves, and the ever-changing demands of military life has reinforced that sustainable success requires setting boundaries, prioritizing what matters most, and giving yourself permission to choose balance over burnout.
My advice to others is to define success on your own terms. Work hard, pursue opportunities that challenge you, but don’t sacrifice your health, your relationships, or the moments with your family that you’ll never get back. The most rewarding careers are the ones that allow you to thrive both professionally and personally.
03What advice would you give to young women entering your industry?
My biggest piece of advice is to find something you’re genuinely passionate about. When you enjoy what you do, work becomes much more fulfilling, and it makes the challenges and long days feel worthwhile. The payments industry is constantly evolving, which creates endless opportunities to learn, grow, and build an exciting career if you’re curious and willing to embrace change.
I would also encourage young women to define success on their own terms. It’s easy to feel pressure to constantly chase the next title or promotion, but long-term success is about building a career that supports the life you want—not the other way around.
If motherhood is part of your journey, remember that balance isn’t a luxury—it’s essential. I’ve learned firsthand that no paycheck is worth sacrificing your well-being. Give yourself permission to set boundaries, prioritize your mental health, and make time for the people and experiences that matter most. A fulfilling career and a fulfilling personal life don’t have to be mutually exclusive, and you shouldn’t feel like you have to choose between them.
04What values are most important to you in your work and personal life?
The values that are most important to me, both professionally and personally, are honesty, integrity, kindness, hard work, and balance.
I believe trust is the foundation of every strong relationship, whether it’s with a customer, a colleague, a partner, or my family. Leading with honesty and integrity has always guided my decisions and helped me build meaningful, long-term relationships throughout my career.
Kindness is equally important to me. The payments industry can move quickly and be highly demanding, but I’ve found that treating people with respect, empathy, and understanding makes a lasting impact. You never know what someone else is navigating, and a little kindness can go a long way.
Hard work has also been a constant throughout my career. As a military spouse who has relocated multiple times while continuing to grow professionally, I’ve learned the value of resilience, adaptability, and showing up consistently even when circumstances change.
Finally, I place a high value on balance. For many years, I focused heavily on achievement and career growth, but I’ve learned that success is most meaningful when it exists alongside a fulfilling personal life. Being present for my family, prioritizing my well-being, and creating space for both work and life is something I intentionally strive for every day.
Together, those values have shaped not only the professional I’ve become, but also the person I want to be.
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