Kay Timbs-Durfor
Kay Timbs-Durfor is a seasoned Human Resources Director at Valley Nursing and Rehabilitation in Boone, North Carolina, bringing nearly three decades of experience in healthcare and over a decade in human resources. She began her career in emergency medicine in 1997, inspired by a mentor who recognized her ability to remain calm under pressure. Starting as an EMT and later serving as a firefighter, Kay developed a strong foundation in crisis response, safety, and patient care—skills that would later shape her unique and highly practical approach to HR leadership.
Her transition into human resources was a natural progression, driven by her deep expertise in training and safety. Over the past 11 years, Kay has specialized in healthcare education, employee training, and workplace safety, blending her clinical background with people-focused HR strategies. Known for her empathetic and nontraditional approach, she prioritizes connection, transparency, and support, helping employees navigate both professional responsibilities and personal challenges. In addition to her HR leadership, she continues to serve her community as an EMT and instructor, providing first aid and CPR training and supporting local emergency response efforts.
Beyond her professional work, Kay is deeply committed to service, creativity, and community empowerment. She volunteers regularly at local events, teaches lifesaving skills through her church, and has been recognized for both her HR contributions and her service in emergency medicine, including being named EMT of the Year. Looking ahead, she aspires to open a local artisan business that uplifts women creators by providing a platform for handmade goods and artistic expression. Through all her endeavors, Kay remains guided by values of resilience, compassion, and a strong belief in supporting others to grow and succeed.
• EMT Certification
• HR Service Award (2026)
• EMT of the Year (2012)
• Multiple Art Awards
• Marketing Awards
• First aid and CPR training instructor at church
• Community safety and training volunteer
What do you attribute your success to?
I attribute my success to overcoming significant medical and physical challenges, which built my resilience and strengthened my ability to stay focused despite setbacks.
What’s the best career advice you’ve ever received?
The best career advice I’ve received was early encouragement from a friend to pursue emergency medicine, followed by the importance of finding a mentor and asking for help when I feel overwhelmed.
What advice would you give to young women entering your industry?
My advice is to first understand who you are and your strengths, identify where you fit best, and be prepared to balance responsibilities while working with diverse teams—while also making time for self-care.
What are the biggest challenges or opportunities in your field right now?
One of the biggest challenges in my field is managing the emotional demands of wearing multiple hats while addressing diverse needs across different ages, learning abilities, and disabilities in HR and training. At the same time, an exciting opportunity for me is launching a local artisan business that supports and empowers women creators.
What values are most important to you in your work and personal life?
The values most important to me are faith and family, resilience, a commitment to community service, and supporting other women.
Locations
Valley Nursing Center
Boone, NC 28607