Success lives in the lives I've touched: students who found their voice, staff who felt supported, and communities that grew stronger through heart-led leadership.
Maria Toskos, PD, SDL · In Her Own Words
Her Story
About Maria
Maria Toskos, PD, SDL, is a seasoned educational leader and high school Assistant Principal within the New York City Department of Education, with over three decades of service in public education. She has supervised a wide range of instructional programs including World Languages, English Language Arts, English As A New Language (TESOL), Physical Education, Technology, Library Media Science and Visual Arts. Her leadership emphasizes inclusive education, staff development, and the expansion of academic and arts-based programming to support diverse student populations. Beginning her career as an English Teacher and ENL Department Coordinator, Maria has spent more than 20 years in school administration and over 30 years in education overall. Her work is grounded in mentoring teachers, supporting English Language Learners, and strengthening special education services. She has played a key role in developing creative student programs such as jewelry design, percussion, and visual arts, with student work recognized in exhibitions including Grand Central Station showcases. Alongside her educational leadership, Maria is also a freelance visual artist with over 30 years of experience in painting and mural work. Her dual commitment to education and the arts reflects her belief in creativity as a tool for learning, expression and empowerment. She has been recognized as Staff Member of the Year (2026) and has received multiple honors and grant awards for innovative school programs and student development initiatives.
Her Interview
Ten minutes with Maria
01What do you attribute your success to?
I attribute my success to my deep passion for teaching and learning, and to a lifelong commitment to helping both students and teachers succeed. This passion has always been intrinsic, something that has guided every decision I've made throughout my career. I've consistently shown up with purpose, resilience and a belief in the power of education. My success is rooted in the sacrifices I have made along the way: investing countless of hours in mentoring and coaching teachers and students, and strengthening literacy across all subject areas. I've always led with compassion and a commitment to collaboration and trust. These qualities have helped me build strong relationships and create environments where students and faculty can thrive.
02What’s the best career advice you’ve ever received?
The best career advice I have received is to have an open heart and truly listen to others. Over the years, I've learned that every individual carries a story shaped by their experiences, challenges and hopes. Being a good listener allows you to better support people with empathy and care and without judgment. Listening deeply has also strengthened my ability to offer guidance, build trust among teams and support all learners by honoring their unique needs.
03What advice would you give to young women entering your industry?
I would advise young women to develop strong administrative leadership skills by balancing structure with proactive systems that truly support the people they serve. Success requires prioritization, clear communication, authentic relationships grounded in trust and respect. It is also essential to stay connected to the realities of the world around us, understand the lives and struggles of others; stay connected to the daily realities of the people you serve. Embrace your voice, remain confident and be courageous.
04What are the biggest challenges or opportunities in your field right now?
One of the biggest challenges in education today is addressing the complex social realities students face, including poverty, family instability, and limited parental engagement. Additionally, schools often struggle with insufficient funding and limited physical space, which restricts the ability to expand programs and resources needed to support student success.
05What values are most important to you in your work and personal life?
The most important values in my work and personal life are trust, transparency, and clear communication. I also prioritize building a strong, connected community of learners, while remaining flexible, compassionate, and understanding in all interactions. These values remind me to lead with integrity, empathy and purpose and to ceate an environment where everyone is seen, heard and valued.
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