Influential Woman · Writing teaching speaking
Michele Lee Sefton
Author, msefton.com
Phoenix, AZ
Her Story
About Michele
I've always wanted to be a writer - I can't remember a time when I didn't feel like that was part of my destiny, my journey, my desire. But as a high school English teacher and community college instructor, I didn't have time for my own writing because I was busy grading and preparing lesson plans until 10:30 at night. In February 2019, I lost my father, and I was with him when he passed. It was a wake-up call about how short life is and made it even more poignant. That summer, after not renewing my teaching contract, I started writing a personal project called 50 Life Stories - I had just turned 50 that June, so it was another pivotal life change. I wrote these stories without any intention of publishing, just as a way to move through healing, letting one story roll to the next from my own experience. It took me about 7 months to finish. One of those stories had more to say and became my novel, Jade's Broken Bridge, which was published in October 2024. In August 2019, I also started my blog, which is still active today. I've overcome that initial fear of sharing my writing with the world, and I've published hundreds of poems, recitations, audio readings, and photography - another passion of mine. I've published 2 novellas, 3 illustrated chapbooks, and been included in poetry anthologies. My novel is new adult fiction, also called autofiction or literary fiction and women's fiction. It's based on my own experience as a young woman in the late 1980s and written in poetic prose, which is my style. Since January 2020, I've been working with another author teaching narrative therapy online. Our first workshop together was at the Mayo Clinic in Phoenix, where most participants were dealing with cancer, which is how I lost my father. That was in person, but we've been online since COVID hit. My days look different depending on whether I have a workshop or other commitments. I typically start my day meditating with the rising sun, then go on a bike ride before my workday begins. I might have a book talk or book festival - I've done a couple since my book launch. I'm currently revising one of my novellas for a second edition with a new cover, with a goal to have it ready by June. My blog is part of my weekly, if not daily, routine, though I'm currently on a blog break to get my business affairs in order. Publishing my book was probably my most notable achievement because it got a lot of local media attention - I was on Channel 12 News in Phoenix. They called a couple days before the book was released and asked if I wanted to come on. I wanted to say no and hang up, but I said okay to Wednesday because that gave me 2 days to prepare. Since losing my father, I've been learning to move through fear - I've always been a very fear-based person. I've had the courage to share a difficult and darker period of my life through my book. I'm now moving into becoming a speaker, working on a keynote for the past few weeks, looking at venues, and planning to start with a smaller focus group next month, tying into International Women's Month. My work focuses on themes of women empowerment and overcoming difficulty, including experiences from watching my mom and her six sisters live difficult, unfulfilled lives when I was a child.
Her Interview
Ten minutes with Michele
01What do you attribute your success to?
I attribute my success to learning to move through fear. I've always been a very fear-based person, but since losing my father in 2019, I've been pushing myself to do things I never thought I would have the courage to do. When Channel 12 News called and asked me to come on just two days before my book was released, I wanted to say no and hang up the phone, but I said okay to Wednesday because that at least gave me 2 days to prepare. I've learned to honor the highly sensitive part of myself after spending years trying to fit in and adapt, which I paid for through my health and mental well-being. Making difficult choices a few years ago to leave teaching, even though it was my identity and I felt very on-purpose teaching, allowed me to finally focus on my craft and live with peace, health, and overall well-being. It's been an incredible journey to be living this midlife experience, bringing me back to what I wanted and dreamed about as a child, before the busyness of life took over.
02What values are most important to you in your work and personal life?
The most important values to me are peace, health, and overall well-being. After spending years in stressful, loud high school hallways, with stress amplifying through the years, I'm so grateful to have the peace and quiet now to just focus on my craft. I'm a highly sensitive person, and I finally get to honor that part of myself and take care of that part of myself after spending years trying to fit in and adapt. I paid for that through my health and mental well-being when I was teaching. Now I have the freedom to start my day meditating with the rising sun, go on a bike ride, and then begin my workday. I love spending time in nature, being outside in the quiet desert places where it's not only peaceful and nurturing, but also a connection to my childhood. My daughter said she thinks I'm alone too much, but I told her I understand why she would say that, but after all those years in stressful environments, I'm really grateful for the peace and quiet. It's about bringing me back to what I wanted and dreamed about as a child.
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