Mimi Hayes, Theater Director on Influential Women

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Mimi Hayes

Theater Director, Kidstage

Denver, CO

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Certifications · Degrees · Memberships

Degree Bachelor's Degree in American History Degree Student Teaching Certification Degree Improv Training at Upright Citizens Brigade Cert Bachelor's Degree in American History Cert TED Talk Speaker (2021) Member Being an Artist Program

Her Story

About Mimi

I do a lot of things in my career. I'm a stand-up comedian, and I perform on stages, do one-woman shows, and appear at festivals around the world. I'm also a brain injury survivor - I had my first brain bleed in 2014 when I was becoming a high school history teacher, and it was really out of the blue. I ended up having to stop teaching for a while and have brain surgery, and I had to relearn how to walk. That experience oddly enough led to my comedy career because I was kind of making dark jokes out of it. Then I had another brain injury in 2023, the same thing in the same place, so it's a reoccurring situation. I still deal with having a disability while being a very high-functioning person who has a lot of goals. I do keynote speaking at conferences, corporate events, and stuff like that, speaking to survivors, caregivers, and medical professionals. I also have a writing business where I'm a writing coach, and I coach future authors and help them put together their manuscripts for publication. I'm a published author - my book 'I'll Be Okay, It's Just a Hole in My Head' came out in 2018 and details the first brain bleed, the diagnosis, trying to be a teacher, relationships, and stuff like that. I just finished my second book and I'm looking for an agent to get a bigger publishing deal this time. I started by going to open mics in Denver, which is where I'm from, and I would get on stage and talk about hospitals, my symptoms, and trying to be a regular person again in a very fast-paced world. I was back into teaching and taught for about 2 years before I really just burned out. At that point, my comedy was getting better and my book was becoming a real thing, so I moved to New York City in 2017 to pursue stand-up and get my book published. I was doing clubs and was kind of getting to the top of my game around COVID, which led me back to Colorado for a few years. My comedy has evolved - I have these one-woman shows now that are not quite stand-up, they're more storytelling, character work, and dark humor. I got to open for Jim Gaffigan once in New York City, and he was super sweet. His wife had had brain cancer, so when I met him I was able to give him my book and say this is for you and your wife, I heard you were her caregiver. That was a big moment. I did a TED talk in 2021, which has gotten me some gigs just based off of having that on my resume. I've always been a performer, always been on stage - I'm a middle child, I like attention, I was a theater kid. Teaching prepared me for comedy because it was a very unpredictable environment with lots of hecklers - teenagers are rough to work with sometimes - and I think that really helped me be a better comedian, preparing for the unpredictability of a comedy club or someone interrupting your set. I've been on stage for most of my life, and I'm always just trying to be on stage as often as I can and reach as many people as I can, because that's what teachers do - they reach people, talk to people, help people make choices and understand their lives better. I still feel like a teacher in a lot of ways, but I'm just doing it in a different way now.

Her Interview

Ten minutes with Mimi

01What advice would you give to young women entering your industry?

I would say be prepared for an interesting ride. You know, it's an unconventional life. I started out in the conventional life - being a teacher is a very understood career path, right? But being an artist is out there, and some people don't quite understand, or maybe don't value art as much as it should be valued, and you're gonna have to really hustle. But I would say, if not now, when? And if not you, who? You know, if you don't get out there and really chase it, there's probably other people that are gonna chase it, and with social media being the way it is, it's easy to see what other people have, so just focus on yourself and what you can bring to the table. Just be prepared for living an unconventional life, but it's entertaining, it's fun - I wouldn't trade it for anything else. I don't want to live the traditional path that everyone else is living. And you get to experience a lot of really unique experiences through being an artist.

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