Her Story
About Sharon
Sharon Stephens is a Practice Lead for Global Proactive Cybersecurity Services at Dell Technologies, where she leads global cybersecurity initiatives focused on strengthening enterprise resilience and advancing proactive defense strategies. She is a highly credentialed cybersecurity professional holding certifications including CISM, CEH, CDPSE, and CCISO, with extensive experience spanning strategic leadership, security operations, and enterprise risk management across complex, global environments. In her role, Sharon operates across a diverse international customer base, with responsibilities that shift based on regional priorities and organizational needs. She leads both strategic advisory efforts and operational cybersecurity delivery, supporting organizations in maturing their security programs and enhancing their ability to prevent, detect, and respond to cyber threats. She also works closely with her teams to help customers reduce the impact of cyber incidents, limit operational disruption, and minimize both financial and reputational damage through effective, proactive defense strategies. With more than 18 years of experience in cybersecurity, Sharon has built a distinguished career across the U.S. Army, the National Security Agency, and enterprise security leadership roles. Her passion for the field was shaped early in her career through a defining conversation that reframed cybersecurity threats as potentially equivalent in impact to physical weapons, particularly in the context of national security and critical infrastructure. That insight deepened her commitment to the discipline and continues to drive her focus on protecting organizations, safeguarding critical systems, and enabling resilient digital operations in an increasingly complex threat landscape.
Her Interview
Ten minutes with Sharon
01What do you attribute your success to?
I attribute my success to hard work and a strong desire to succeed. It hasn't always been the easiest, and there have certainly been roadblocks and times where I've been told no, whether it was a particular job or maybe I didn't get the position that I'd hoped for. But I still believed that I had the skills and the attributes and determination to keep going. I also think it's important to align yourself with those that can champion on your behalf when you're not in the room. That's made a real difference in my career.
02What’s the best career advice you’ve ever received?
The best career advice I've ever received is an old saying: it's not necessarily what you know, but it's who you know. This really hit home for me when I landed my position at Dell Technologies. It was because of someone I had worked with 20 years prior who remembered me. As Dell was standing up a new cybersecurity professional services practice, this person came across my profile on LinkedIn and reached out saying they didn't know if I remembered them, but we had served together in the military 20 years ago. They told me I had done this really emotional intelligence thing and helped them in a situation with some of their paperwork, and they always had fond memories of me for helping them out through that tough situation. They saw I was doing cybersecurity and getting ready to exit the military, and asked if I wanted to have a conversation about joining Dell. We had a 2-hour conversation that day, which led me to an interview with the hiring manager, and that's how I started my career at Dell after I retired from the military. So building and maintaining those relationships really matters.
03What advice would you give to young women entering your industry?
I do a lot of mentorship with different individuals, and what I've found most challenging is that it's super difficult in the market for entry-level security professionals to make it past the recruiter's scan and even just get an interview. All these organizations say entry-level, but they're really looking for some level of experience. So how do you make yourself seen and visible against those challenges? I try to be creative and offer suggestive advice. First, go out and find an internship and build those relationships, because that's potentially going to lead to an interview to land that job. If that's not an option, look for volunteer opportunities where you can expand upon your academic knowledge and include some practical work experience. And third, pursue IT certifications. Just having a degree isn't enough, because you're being compared against those that have IT certifications. These are practical ways to gain credibility and stand out in a competitive market.
04What are the biggest challenges or opportunities in your field right now?
AI is the biggest challenge in my field right now. I'm a defender of the network, and AI can be a problem. If you think about threat actors across the globe, it's pretty easy for them to breach into a network. It's kind of like an ant coming into your house - how do you keep an ant out of your house? It's very difficult. And with the leverage of AI in today's environment, it makes that challenge exponential. You have to defend AI by countering with AI from a defensive mechanism. So what we're really focused on is how do we securely integrate AI adoption and cybersecurity defensive strategies without introducing more vulnerabilities or holes that threat actors can exploit. That's the real challenge we're facing.
05What values are most important to you in your work and personal life?
Organization is super key for me - it's something I pride myself on, and I look for those attributes in others. I also value a strong work ethic, being reliable and accountable, and having good communications skills. Even if you have a bad message to convey, strong communication skills are foundational. And I think having an eagerness and willingness to learn is critical. We can't stay stagnant, particularly in the IT field. It's continually evolving, and AI is making that evolution happen at an even more rapid pace, so you have to be committed to continuous learning.
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