Sheree Darien
My career has taken me through multiple fields, creating impact not just in finance where I work now, but also in media and community leadership. After a political campaign that gained national news attention, I had the opportunity to host my own TV show called Courageous Conversations with Sheree. When that show ended, it transitioned to talk radio in Savannah, where I continued the same program for many years until I moved to Wilmington. I've also run my own nonprofit organization, and I'm deeply committed to empowering future leaders. I've authored a book sharing my experiences and insights. Looking back, my mom would probably be amazed at this transformation, because I've gone from being shy to someone comfortable with public speaking and media. It's been a total transformation, and I'm grateful for the journey that has allowed me to make a difference in my community and beyond.
• Author - Testimony, A Second Chance. Making the Next Time The Best Time
• Exceptional Women of Excellence
• Iconic Women Creating A Better World for All
• BNI Coastal Carolina Visionaries Chapter President
• City of Wilmington
• Cape Fear Community College Foundation
• Greater Wilmington Chamber of Commerce African American Business Council
What do you attribute your success to?
I attribute my success to a combination of clarity, consistency, and the willingness to grow. I’ve always been intentional about how I lead—focusing not just on outcomes, but on who people become in the process. Over time, I’ve realized that success is less about proving something and more about aligning with who you already are. Everything I do and everything I am is rooted in faith.
What’s the best career advice you’ve ever received?
The best career advice I ever received didn’t come as advice—it came as a question about my leadership style. That question led to a defining moment of clarity. I realized I had been operating as a savior—stepping in too often, solving too much, and unintentionally limiting the growth of others. That shift changed everything. I moved from rescuing to developing, from doing for people to empowering them to think, decide, and lead for themselves.
What advice would you give to young women entering your industry?
My advice to young women entering this industry is simple—stop waiting.
Stop waiting to feel ready. Stop waiting to be chosen. Stop waiting for someone to validate what you already know you’re capable of.
Learn the business, build your confidence, and trust your voice early. Focus on how you think, not just what you do. That’s what separates leaders from everyone else.
And most importantly—don’t shrink. Not your presence, not your ambition, not your expectations. You don’t need to become someone else to succeed here. You need to fully step into who you already are.
What are the biggest challenges or opportunities in your field right now?
One of the biggest challenges in our industry right now is balancing rapid innovation with meaningful human connection. Technology is advancing quickly—AI, digital banking, automation—but at the same time, customer expectations are higher than ever. People want speed and convenience, but they also want to feel understood and supported.
There’s also increasing pressure from competition outside of traditional banking—fintechs, digital wallets, and alternative payment platforms are changing how people interact with money.
But within that challenge is a major opportunity. The leaders who will stand out are the ones who can combine both—leveraging technology while still building trust, relationships, and real value for people.
For me, that’s where the opportunity lies. Not just keeping up with change, but leading through it—by developing people, strengthening relationships, and creating experiences that go beyond transactions. Because in a rapidly evolving industry, the real differentiator is still how you make people feel.
What values are most important to you in your work and personal life?
The values that guide me—both in my work and in my personal life—are integrity, growth, and impact.
Integrity means I lead with honesty and clarity, even when it’s uncomfortable. I believe people deserve truth, not just what’s easy to hear.
Growth is a constant for me. I’m always evolving—personally and professionally—and I expect the same from the environments I’m part of.
And impact is what ties it all together. It’s not just about what I achieve, it’s about what I create in others—the confidence, the mindset, and the belief that changes the trajectory of their lives.
At the end of the day, I measure success by how I show up, how I grow, and how I leave people better than I found them.
Locations
REV Federal Credit Union
Wilmington, NC