Her Story
About Tammy
After teaching school for 20 years, mostly at the elementary and middle school levels, I transitioned into a second career in mental health and emotional health. A gentleman from JBU pursued me for about half a year to go back to grad school, and I finally decided to do it. I got my master's in counseling because I've always been interested in what makes people tick and have been naturally introspective, wanting to be a better person and help others mature and evolve. I wrote a personal mission statement focused on the idea that to educate means to draw out, to bring out oneself, not just to give information but to actually help people know themselves and learn. During this second career, I ended up working more with high school students, which I really enjoyed. I worked officially for about three and a half years, plus about two and a half years during my internship, totaling about five years working with people and clients. I've established an LLC and left my job about a year ago with the intention of getting my own practice started and moving at my own pace, not necessarily conforming to the expectations of any other industry. I've also restarted putting out videos as part of my journey to expand upon my mission and shape it into a different career path versus just the traditional therapy. I have the gift and ability to break down concepts so that people can understand through analogies, and I've been able to connect with people on that level throughout my career.
Her Interview
Ten minutes with Tammy
01What do you attribute your success to?
I attribute my success to being introspective and always wanting to be a good person, the right person, a better person, to mature and evolve. I've always been passionate about helping people, but not just helping in a general sense. I realized through writing a personal mission statement that to educate means to draw out, to bring out oneself, not just to give information for someone to throw back, but to actually help people know themselves and learn. As I continue my own journey of self-discovery, knowing myself has helped me see and help other people better. I learned early on that I have the gift and ability to break down concepts so that children and people can understand through analogies and things like that, and I've been able to connect with people on that level. I've also followed my passion and what I love doing, what I would do for free, and that's kept me going.
02What advice would you give to young women entering your industry?
I would say follow your passion and know what you're good at. Think about what's important to you, what you love doing, what you would do for free. You know, as much as you have to make a living too, but if you can find a way to make it work for you, do what you're passionate about. I learned early on that I have the gift and ability to break down concepts and children can understand through analogies and things like that, so I've been able to connect with people on that level. Know what your talents are and use them to contribute and give to society, not take from it. Instead of working against each other, especially with what's going on in this country right now, I wish that men could heal as well and appreciate the feminine for what we have always been able to give and provide. Everyone has something to contribute, and whatever your talents are, use them for good.
03What are the biggest challenges or opportunities in your field right now?
I see that the field has always been kind of male-dominated, especially when you learn about the so-called fathers of this and the males that contributed to the different theories and things. I just want people to see each other beyond gender or sex, whatever you want to label it, and recognize that everybody has something to contribute and different roles. Instead of working against each other, especially with what's going on in this country right now, I wish that men could heal as well and appreciate the feminine for what we have always been able to give and provide. It's always been used and taken for granted in a lot of ways, and I think that's because of the way that people have seen things. I'd like to think that this is the beginning of the end of that, and hopefully it will be in the past soon.
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