Influential Woman · Clergy
Tyra Frazier
Pastor, Bethel AME Church
Bay Shore, NY
Her Story
About Tyra
I've been in ministry since 2016, when I did my initial sermon while still working at a law firm. That was my entranceway into ministry, and I received a license in the African Methodist Episcopal Church at that time. My original plan was to become a lawyer - I got my undergraduate degree in administration of justice and worked as a law clerk - but somehow I knew I was going in a different direction. After my initial sermon, I went back to school and earned two Masters: a Master of Arts in Christian Ministry and a Master's of Divinity. Those degrees are close to my heart because that's where I really learned how to minister to people and to be attentive, and to not see through people, but see people. Once I completed my Master's of Divinity, I was ordained. I have two ordinations: one as an itinerant deacon and one as an itinerant elder. I took my first church in May of 2020, on Mother's Day weekend, and I've been the pastor of 3 different churches from 2020 to where I am currently at Bethel AME Church. On a day-to-day basis, I do constant congregational care, making sure those under my charge are okay mentally, emotionally, physically, and spiritually. That can include hospital visits, funerals, phone calls just checking in, or serving in the food pantry - depending on what the church is doing that day. I would say my main area of expertise is people. I'm a lover of God and a lover of people, and I couldn't be a pastor without people. You have to have somebody to minister to, so I would definitely say people and just sharing love everywhere I go.
Her Interview
Ten minutes with Tyra
01What do you attribute your success to?
I attribute my success to God Almighty. Because without him, I am nothing. Everything I've been able to accomplish in ministry, all the people I've been able to reach and serve, it all comes back to keeping the Lord first. That's the foundation of everything I do.
02What advice would you give to young women entering your industry?
My advice would be to, one, keep the Lord first. And two, just remember to love the people. It's important to me that I'm available for the next woman who may question whether she should do it or not, because a lot of religions, a lot of denominations still don't accept women preachers. So whatever I can do to encourage somebody else that may be thinking about entering ministry, coming up in ministry, even if I could mentor them, that will always be something that I would be interested in. I want to be there for the women that may be discouraged and help them know they can do this.
03What are the biggest challenges or opportunities in your field right now?
Some of the biggest challenges are the language barrier, since the church I currently pastor is in a mostly Hispanic neighborhood, and there's also a lot of drugs in the area. Sometimes people don't want help, so it's about finding ways to communicate with the community, see what needs are there, and try to meet them. You still find ways to love them where they're at and try to minister to them and get help if they want it. On the opportunity side, I get to always be a blessing to somebody. I love children, and one of the highlights each year is when the church does a back-to-school giveaway. Just to see the smiles on the children's faces, and during Christmas when we do our Christmas giveaway, it is the same thing. To be able to interact with the families and see the children, and to know that they are excited and happy about getting something, anything, a toy, just anything, is always warming to my heart. To be able to work in the community and bless these little babies, to make sure they have what they need for school and have something for Christmas, and whenever else I can get things and give out, I will always do that.
04What values are most important to you in your work and personal life?
I often reflect on this song by Jackie DeShannon, and she says, what the world needs now is love, sweet love. One of the main values is that we continue to love one another, that we respect each other, and that we continue to be people who are for humankind. And I'll go back to it again and continue to show love. Love is the language of faith, and it's what guides everything I do, both in my work and in my personal life.
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