Victoria Tucker

Founder & Story Collector-in-Chief
Tea with the Dames™
Southern California, CA 92091

Victoria Tucker is a community architect and organizational development leader with nearly four decades of experience designing and strengthening corporate communities across global organizations.


As Founder and Managing Director of ZBglobal LLC, she partnered with executive teams across industries to improve collaboration, engagement, and long-term culture, guiding more than 30,000 professionals through leadership development and transformation initiatives.


Her work has long centered on helping organizations move beyond structure alone toward intentional, sustainable communities—places where people contribute meaningfully and stay connected.

Building on this foundation, she created Tea with the Dames™, a storytelling and publishing platform devoted to gathering and elevating women’s voices across generations. Through curated bookazine volumes, essays, and shared wisdom, she captures lived experiences, life lessons, and cultural narratives that reflect the richness of intergenerational insight.


What began as a natural shift from corporate advisory work has grown into a platform that blends storytelling, reflection, and community-building—offering space for women to be heard, celebrated, and remembered through their words.


Across both her corporate and creative work, her philosophy remains grounded in the belief that meaningful community shapes how people lead, communicate, and live. She emphasizes clarity, connection, and intentional conversation, often noting that language carries its own kind of manners—and leaves a lasting impression.


Today, she continues to create spaces where voices are valued and shared, inviting others into thoughtful conversations around leadership, legacy, and the enduring power of women’s wisdom.

• Guest Speaker National HR Association (Orange County)
• Guest Speaker
• Guest Speaker City of Hope
• 2017 Speaker City of Hope
• 2016 Speaker City of Hope
• 2014 Moderator for Athena Panel: Women in Technology (held at Sony)
• 2013 Athena Pinnacle Award Nominee
• 2013 MC for International BioInspiration Conference
• 2012 Athena Pinnacle Award Nominee

• The Honor Foundation
• MedTech Veterans Association

Q

What do you attribute your success to?

I attribute my success to the steady, quietly impactful voices in my life, men and women alike, who did not make a fuss but somehow managed to make a difference.


They taught me that purpose does not arrive fully formed, and that clarity often shows up after you have already begun. In other words, do not wait for the perfect plan. Just start putting one thoughtful foot in front of the other.


The lesson was never about perfection. It was about being useful. About showing up, doing what you can, and leaving things a little better than you found them.


My grandmother, especially, left her mark on me. She came of age before women had the right to vote, yet lived with a quiet certainty that her life mattered and acted accordingly.


I have been taking notes ever since.

Q

What’s the best career advice you’ve ever received?

The best career advice I’ve ever received was simple. Focus not on being perfect, but on being useful.


I was also reminded early on to live and work with purpose, even when the path ahead is not entirely clear. Those two ideas have stayed with me.


Over time, I have come to see that usefulness builds trust, and purpose gives it direction. Together, they shape work that actually matters.


They continue to guide how I show up, what I choose to contribute, and where I spend my energy.

Q

What advice would you give to young women entering your industry?

My advice to young women entering this field is to seek out the lessons other women have already lived, and to truly listen when they share them.


It is not about posturing to be competitive. It is about positioning yourself to be teachable. The difference matters.


There is a depth of wisdom available to you, often offered quietly and without fanfare. Pay attention to it. Ask questions. Stay curious.


Growth rarely comes from trying to outshine others. It comes from being willing to learn, to absorb, and to carry those lessons forward in your own way.

Q

What are the biggest challenges or opportunities in your field right now?

One of the biggest challenges in my field is the continued pushback women are facing. We are seeing concerning signals, from wage gaps that persist to setbacks in reproductive rights, along with a growing sense of frustration that many women are carrying.


These realities point to something larger. There is an urgent need to refocus attention on women’s rights, education, and long-term equity, not just as policy, but as a shared priority across communities and organizations.


At the same time, there is a meaningful opportunity in front of us.


We can be far more intentional about collecting and sharing the wisdom of women across generations. When that wisdom is surfaced and passed along, it has the power to steady, inspire, and guide others as they move forward in both their careers and their lives.


And perhaps most importantly, we do not need to fully see the end goal to know it is worth fighting for.

Q

What values are most important to you in your work and personal life?

The values that guide me, in both my work and my personal life, are rooted in living in a way that is larger than myself. Not for recognition, but for impact that genuinely serves others.


At the center of that is a deep belief in education, especially for young women. When women are equipped with knowledge, perspective, and confidence, they are far better positioned to shape their own lives and influence the world around them.


I also believe in living with purpose, in choosing usefulness over perfection, and in showing up in ways that make a meaningful contribution.


Equally important is fostering community, creating spaces where women feel supported, encouraged, and able to learn from one another across generations.


These values continue to shape how I live, how I work, and what I choose to build.

Locations

Tea with the Dames™

1844 Horsmans Lane, Southern California, CA 92091

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