Her Story
About Wanda
Wanda Tucker is a Certified Grief Counselor and information technology professional who has spent more than two decades building a career in tech while now channeling her personal experience with loss into a growing grief-support practice. After earning her bachelor's degree in Information Technology from Monroe University, she built a long career in the legal sector, including nine years as a Technical Analyst at Sidley Austin LLP, before moving into roles supporting nonprofit and education organizations. She currently applies her technical background at the New York City Department of Parks and Recreation while also teaching basic technology skills to formerly incarcerated students through a contract role at Mercy College.
Tucker's path into grief counseling began in 2021, when the loss of her mother led her through eighteen months of complicated grief. That experience prompted her to pursue formal training, and she completed her certification through the American Academy of Grief Counseling in 2024. Since then, she has been developing her practice, offering support to both those who are grieving and the people around them. Her work centers on a signature CARE framework, detailed in a workbook she authored, which helps clients name and understand the specific ways their grief shows up, whether through anger, numbness, or exhaustion, so they can begin to move toward healing.
Beyond one-on-one counseling, Tucker incorporates art therapy into her practice and is developing workshops and a certification program aimed at building community around grief support. She is especially passionate about expanding public understanding of grief beyond loss through death, pointing to experiences like retirement or the end of a relationship as forms of grief that often go unacknowledged. Guided by a belief that no one should have to grieve alone, she is working toward a full-time transition into grief counseling, with the goal of helping others find healthy outlets for their emotions and uncover the positive growth that can emerge from loss.
Her Interview
Ten minutes with Wanda
01What are the biggest challenges or opportunities in your field right now?
There is a widespread lack of education around grief in our field today. Many people equate grief solely with death, without recognizing that it can also stem from experiences like retirement, an empty nest, or the end of a relationship. I see this gap as an opportunity — a chance to build education, certification programs, community support systems, workshops, and art-therapy outlets that help people process loss in all its forms.
02What values are most important to you in your work and personal life?
Community, compassion, and the belief that no one should have to grieve alone are the values that guide me most. I strive to turn my personal experience with loss into purposeful service for others.
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