Mindset Matters - Looking at Life from a Different Perspective
When You See Life Through A New Set of Lenses
Mindset Matters – Looking at Life from a Different Perspective
Mindset – the established set of attitudes held by someone.
Over the past few years, with the pandemic, economic crises, racial imbalances, gender battles, and wars spreading worldwide, many people have shifted their old ways of thinking and doing. Now add in the chaos and struggles with our current President, which has literally “broken the internet,” so to speak. As a nation, we have gone through many necessary changes (and some that should never have happened) and far too many uncomfortable situations. We truly are in a state of “transition.” We must move forward and find balance amid all that is happening around us.
There is so much information on social media hitting us daily that it is hard to process it all and put it into perspective. Our brains are on overload!
As we push forward, our thoughts, views, and mindset have changed. They have to change, as nothing stays the same forever.
There is that word – Mindset!
The mind, our thoughts, the brain…
As children, we all experienced different things in our lives. Looking back, we can fondly remember wonderful moments, or we can feel the pains of the past. Many of us ponder how life could have been different if we experienced other things. Life could have been better if someone had stepped in to help a child or young adult in a difficult situation or environment.
Many thoughts and different scenarios shroud our minds.
How does mindset play into all of this?
We all have ideas, dreams, and goals. How do we get from point A to point B? It is about mindset.
It all begins with a dream. As children, we dreamed of doing incredible things—the childlike mind knowing no limitations. What a wonderful place to be in that “childlike,” technicolor world!
It is there that incredible things can and will happen. We must go back to the beginning and tap into what fuels our passion. What was that inner drive that excited you? We must remember.
Once you tap into that inner energy, a whole new mindset will begin: Dream it. Game Plan. Motivation. Do it. Success.
I have always said, “Mindset is the key to success.” Hard work and determination open doors, but true passion opens the mind. I believe this wholeheartedly because I have lived it—the good, the bad, and the ugly. I have been to the lowest lows and the highest highs. What got me to those highs? Mindset!
I always set goals for myself, and I envision myself already there. Once I have that vision, I push forward with strong determination to reach my final destination. With a powerful mindset, I can see it through and ultimately reach my goals.
Some people argue that if you envision yourself already there, you may become lazy and not make it happen. I beg to differ. Throughout my life, a strong mindset has helped me through some of the most difficult times on my journey. Mindset is a practiced skill, but once you begin to focus on it, incredible things begin to happen.
It is time to work on “self-talk.” Be your own cheerleader and walk yourself through the process. You can write your goals in a journal and begin each new day by reading them out loud to yourself. Let the words sink in. Then, get to work!
Also, write quotes and phrases that resonate with you and keep them close at hand. When you begin to doubt yourself, pull out those notes and read them over and over. Work toward changing your negative thoughts to positive ones.
It is amazing when you listen to your own voice, as you state your intentions out loud. Absorb the words, use them as fuel to ignite your internal flame, and let them propel you forward toward victory! Begin by replacing “I can’t” with “I will.” Focus, focus, focus.
As you move forward, you will find that all of these self-help tools really do work. It doesn’t happen in a day or even a week, but it does happen. Before you know it, you will be applying these skills in your everyday life. The best part is that it is contagious! When others see you determined and thriving, they will pay attention and follow your lead.
Of course, everyone wants to know the answer to this big question: “How are you succeeding in life, and what is the secret?”
The answer: MINDSET.
- My motto for 2023 was “Eye on the Prize” – set your goals, focus on the end result, and work hard to get there. Focus on the journey and how it will feel once you achieve your goals.
- My motto for 2024 is “Winning” – tell yourself this is your year to shine brightly. Be your own cheerleader and do not let the naysayers bring you down.
- My motto for 2025 is “Show UP” – yes, show up for yourself and others. Be present in the moment and mindful of all that you do. You have the ability to create new beginnings. Some people will throw doubt and negativity in your path. It is your job to step over those stones and keep moving.
- My motto for 2026 is “Go BIG or Go Home” – think about how you are going to step into that winner’s circle, then do the work! Go big, and you will get there. Do not let anyone break your stride.
Food for thought: Embrace the journey.
– Lisa Zarcone
Please visit my website: lzarcone@comcast.net
Music Quote – Defying Gravity (Elphaba, WICKED)
It’s time to try defying gravity,
I think I’ll try defying gravity
Kiss me goodbye, I’m defying gravity, and you won’t bring me down
I’m through accepting limits
‘Cause someone says they’re so
Some things I cannot change but till I try
I’ll never know….
