I will Run my own Race ..
Find Your Own Pace and Stop Running Someone Else's Race
Each of us is running a unique path in life — a journey full of challenges, learning, and growth. But have you ever stopped to consider that maybe you’re not running your race? Maybe you’ve been carried along by other people’s expectations or by paths you never truly chose.
In life, as in an athletic race, we have the power to choose our direction, our pace, and — most importantly — the purpose behind our journey.
1. Recognize My Own Rhythm
Every human being has their own rhythm in life. In a race, not everyone runs at the same speed. Some prefer to move slowly, enjoying every step, while others push forward as fast as possible. In life, we often fall into the trap of comparing our progress with others, but what truly matters is learning to respect and honor our own pace.
Maybe your journey isn’t the fastest — but that doesn’t mean you’re not moving forward. Every step, no matter how small, brings you closer to your purpose. Running your own race means valuing your progress on your own timeline and celebrating every achievement, no matter what others think.
Learn to breathe. Find yourself. Fight for the peace you need to be happy. When comparison creeps in, choose gratitude instead. Look at your own path — what you’ve overcome, what you’ve learned, how much you’ve grown. When you do, you’ll discover countless reasons to thank God for His blessings.
2. Overcome Obstacles in My Own Way
Every race has obstacles. Some come from within — fear, insecurity, doubt. Others come from outside — financial challenges, family pressures, social expectations. What defines an authentic journey is not avoiding obstacles but choosing how to face them. There isn’t one “right” way.
Sometimes obstacles aren’t overcome with speed, but with patience — breathing, living one day at a time. Other times, we need to pause, reflect, and then move forward with clarity. Running my own race means seeing obstacles not as barriers, but as opportunities to grow, learn, and become stronger.
In the silence, even when it feels like nothing is happening, God is still working in you. Believe it.
3. The Importance of Self-Confidence
Throughout life, there will be moments when you doubt yourself. You may face criticism or comparisons. But when you’re running your own race, self-confidence becomes your engine. Without it, every step feels heavier.
Running your own race means trusting your abilities — trusting that you have what you need to overcome whatever you face, even when you don’t see it yet. Your inner strength grows with every step you take, especially when life feels difficult.
4. The Goal Is Not the End — The Journey Is
We often believe life is about reaching a specific goal: a career, a relationship, a title, or a social status. But just like in a race, the true meaning lies in the journey.
What you learn along the way, the people you meet, and your moments of reflection — these are what shape you.
Your goals may change, because dreams evolve. But what remains constant is your ability to adapt, grow, and continue moving forward — no matter how far away your goal may seem.
5. Learn to Enjoy the Journey
It’s easy to get lost thinking only about the future. But an essential part of running your race is learning to enjoy the present. Sometimes we are so focused on what we want that we forget to appreciate what we already have.
As in any race, it’s not just about reaching the finish line — it’s about experiencing the path along the way: the joy, the lessons, and the people who walk with you.
Enjoy today. Don’t live with anxiety about a future that hasn’t arrived yet. Every moment, every obstacle, every achievement is preparing you for the goal that will come when the time is right. God’s timing is perfect. Believe it.
Running My Own Race: Living Authentically
Running your own race means taking control of your life without being ruled by what others expect from you. It is a journey of self-knowledge, compassion, and growth. It’s not about being the first to reach the goal — it’s about being true to yourself, walking with courage, and trusting your path.
In the end, when you look back, what will matter is not how long it took, but that you ran with heart — that you faced every challenge with strength and learned to enjoy every step.
I want to dance, explore my possibilities, and take daily steps toward my purpose — without rushing, without anxiety about what I cannot control.
I want to move at the rhythm of my breath, be present, live each action fully. I don’t want to run races that aren’t mine.
I only want my race.
Believe it.
Georgina Amabeli
