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✨ New Edition — The Mistakes That Made Me (Part 2) ✨

My first mistake taught me how important it is to choose myself. The second one taught me something even harder: That being capable doesn’t mean being protected.

Eva Nika, Area Vice President on Influential Women
Eva Nika
Area Vice President
The Service Companies
✨ New Edition — The Mistakes That Made Me (Part 2) ✨

Journalism was my dream.

The dream I chose with my whole heart.

And once I chose it, I gave it everything.

💔 The part of the dream no one saw:

I worked hard to prove myself—every single day.

I wrote nonstop.

I showed up on TV.

I spoke on radio.

I chased stories.

I followed VIPs.

I attended late-night events.

I came home late—almost every day.

There were days when my life was work.

And nights when work followed me home.

I wanted everyone to know:

I am good. I belong here. I earned this.

And I did.

🌫️ The realization:

But somewhere between deadlines, cameras, and expectations,

I started to feel something I couldn’t ignore.

I didn’t see my future back home.

Not because I failed.

Not because I wasn’t successful.

But because the life I was building no longer matched the woman I was becoming.

That was the mistake I didn’t recognize right away:

I was living my dream…

but not my next chapter.

🌱 What that taught me:

  • A dream can be real and still not be forever.
  • Success doesn’t always mean sustainability.
  • Working hard doesn’t guarantee fulfillment.
  • Outgrowing a dream is not betrayal—it’s evolution.
  • Sometimes the bravest move is admitting this chapter is complete.

Letting go wasn’t easy.

Walking away from something I fought so hard for felt terrifying.

But staying would have meant ignoring the quiet voice inside me that kept saying:

There is more for you.

🤍 Closing truth:

Journalism shaped me.

It gave me my voice, my courage, my discipline, my curiosity.

Even today, I carry it with me—

in how I listen, how I lead, how I tell stories, how I see people.

I didn’t lose that dream.

I carried it forward.

✨ Not every dream ends.

✨ Some dreams simply change form. ✨

✍️ Reflection for you:

Have you ever loved a dream… but knew it wasn’t where your future lived anymore?

If yes, you’re not lost.

You’re evolving.

And that, too, is leadership.

#TheMistakesThatMadeMe

#JournalismJourney

#WomenWhoEvolve

#CareerTransitions

#LeadershipWithHeart

#YourJourneyIsJustBeginning

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