The Betrayal That Has Cut You Deep Part 2
The Destructive Impact of Infidelity: How Mistresses Use Manipulation and Control to Shatter Families
In my mother’s case, it was very devastating for her and for the entire extended family as well. Instead of these mistresses finding a suitable man of their own and making something of themselves, they rather take possession of someone else’s husband and live off his income.
These so-called mistresses have an impaired way of rationalizing their actions, and I quote: “She made something of herself,” as if these mistresses accomplished something when, in reality, they accomplished nothing. They only created destruction and manipulation.
Unfortunately, men—most men—when they fall for a mistress, do not realize that they are being used. In fact, she has only made a total fool of herself, yet she demands respect as if she were “THE REAL WIFE,” positioning herself as the head of the household, too.
Sorry, but the impaired thinking of about 90% of these mistresses is “moronic,” as if their IQ dropped 50 points.
POWER AND CONTROL
In the mind of a mistress, it is all about power and control—not happiness or love. Yet men tend not to comprehend that all the toxic crocodile tears, innocent behavior, and sad stories of “Woe is me, nobody knows my sorrow” are forms of manipulation—mind-twisting tactics designed to make the man see her as vulnerable, innocent, angelic, and beautiful.
In reality, it can be a very calculated, malicious, and twisted woman who takes her depression, low self-esteem, and jealousy and turns them into power tactics to gain control and rip families apart, destroying their unity, love, and commitment for the sake of her own fortune and happiness.
My stepmom was definitely one of those mistresses. Not only was she a mistress, but she was also my dad’s sister-in-law. In my head, I was thinking, WTH was my dad thinking? Actually, what were they both thinking?
Is lust really that powerful that it can blind a man to his responsibilities and commitment to his wife and children?
In all honesty, she had a blueprint of her own. She did not care what the family would think or what consequences her actions would have in the future. Yet she still managed to completely break up her oldest sister’s marriage.
For decades, my mom could not process in her mind the scenario she had witnessed. Yet she was the one who suffered the most from this betrayal in their so-called marriage.
Sometimes, letting female friends or female family members into your home can be very risky and dangerous because, no matter how close a family may be, there is always one person who is willing to take the...
Part 3 coming soon.
