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You Are Worthy at the Table... Have a Seat with Your Pittance

Reclaim Your Worth and Refuse to Let Anyone Dim Your Light

Grace  Asphall, Retired on Influential Women
Grace Asphall
Retired
International Education
You Are Worthy at the Table... Have a Seat with Your Pittance

You Are Worthy

You do not need a resume full of luxury prizes to belong in the room. You are worthy of a seat at the table, even if you only bring a pittance to it. Far too often, people walk into big meetings feeling like they do not have enough clout to speak up. They look at their achievements and feel small. But your value is not defined by external praise. Your small start can be the very leverage you need to build a better life.

A Lesson for Us All

Look at basketball star Jalen Brunson of the New York Knicks. During the draft, people overlooked him. Critics claimed he was too short and lacked the ideal athletic build. They essentially told him he was not worthy of greatness. He did not have the typical physique of a superstar, but he possessed something far more powerful: stamina, grit, and unstoppable confidence. He kept working when people doubted him. More recently, he has proven every single critic wrong by leading the Knicks to a remarkable championship victory, ending a 53-year drought.

Jalen Brunson's experience transcends gender. You do not have to be a male athlete to understand his journey. Anyone who has ever been told they do not fit the mold can use his story as fuel.

Dream Killers

Yet so many people are still turned away from great opportunities. It is mind-blowing that in the 21st century, we still judge people by their physical appearance, skin tone, language, family name, or ZIP code. We live in a world where some individuals are blinded by financial greed, power, and fame. These control freaks and dream killers will try to use others as stepping stones for their own selfish gain. They want the entire jackpot for themselves, and they will attempt to bully you into believing you are not efficient, competent, or good enough.

Ignore the Noise

You must learn to ignore the noise. If we give in to their opinions, we will never achieve our goals. Go after what you want anyway. Not everyone was born to be a millionaire, and that is perfectly fine. We all have different positions on the ladder of success. Even if you are not at the very top, you are still absolutely enough.

True success means knowing your own path and defining your own version of fulfillment. You do not have to be pushy or forceful; you just have to know what you can handle and what aligns with your values.

The Ball Is in Your Court

So ladies, it is time to square your shoulders and hold your heads high. The ball is in your court. Keep moving forward to become the best version of yourself. Feed your mind and body the right diet—both literally and figuratively. Remember, an empty bag cannot stand up by itself. Fill yourself with confidence, take your space, and never let anyone tell you that you do not belong.

What table are you claiming your seat at today?

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