One of the most important pieces of advice I would offer to young women entering the tech industry—or any demanding field—is to always aim to be independent, both financially and professionally. Independence isn’t just about earning a salary; it’s about having a voice, a choice, and the confidence to stand on your own in any situation. As women, we often find ourselves juggling many responsibilities—whether it’s caring for a child, supporting a family member, or meeting societal expectations—and it’s easy to feel the pressure to step back from our careers in order to keep things running smoothly at home.
There will be moments when you feel like giving up your job or putting your ambitions on hold “for the sake of others.” And while it may come from a place of love or duty, I strongly encourage you to resist that urge, if possible. Even if you can’t commit to a full-time role, staying in the job market in some form—be it a part-time job, contract work, consulting, or freelancing—keeps you connected to your field. It ensures that you stay in touch with industry developments and tools, which is critical in fast-evolving spaces like tech and QA. You don’t need to be an expert in every tool that’s trending, but being familiar with them keeps your learning curve shallow and your confidence strong.
Equally important is the commitment to ongoing learning. Your technical skills are the foundation, but it’s your soft skills—like clear communication, empathy, leadership, and negotiation—that will set you apart as you grow in your career. Make time to upskill, whether through courses, reading, hands-on practice, or simply learning from those around you. Learning should never stop, no matter your role or experience level.
And perhaps one of the most empowering habits to build is to speak up and contribute, even when you’re the only woman in the room. Especially then. It can feel uncomfortable at times, but your voice matters. Your ideas, your observations, and your questions are just as valid as anyone else’s. Over time, you’ll realize that showing up fully and unapologetically is not only beneficial for your own growth but also paves the way for other women who come after you.
So, don’t underestimate the power of staying in the game, of investing in yourself, and of making your presence felt. Every small step you take toward sustaining your career will pay off in ways you can’t always foresee right now—but your future self will thank you.