Kathleen Fors

I attribute my success to being extremely driven to find the fastest way to healing. Throughout my journey, I took every class I could find and worked with 6 or 8 coaches, 5 or 6 therapists, and 8 or 10 healers, always looking to find something new I could add to my coaching techniques and information. I was totally focused on learning as much as possible and kept practicing through practice groups. What really distinguishes me is that I have a detailed questionnaire that asks about clients' upbringing to find all the things that caused trauma, and then I clear the trauma and sabotaging beliefs that were created in youth. That's why my program is so effective and fast - none of the therapists, coaches, or healers I worked with did what I do. I also practice discipline with ease, which means I can work out for an hour every single day, stretching and doing exercises with grace and ease. It's not work - if it's discipline with hardship, that's not going to work. My belief system transformation work is everything because your belief programming causes your thinking, your behavior, and your results. If you can change your beliefs from something like 'I'm not enough' to 'I Am Enough', that changes your life completely.

The best career advice I received came from Yuen Energetics and Theta Healing, and it was really about understanding that your belief system - the programming you get from the time you're born or even before until you're about 6 or 7 years old - causes your thinking, your thoughts, your behavior, and your results. If you can change your beliefs, like taking a negative belief such as 'I'm not enough' and changing that to 'I Am Enough', it changes everything in your life. Your belief programming is what causes your emotions, your confidence, your tenacity. It's everything. This understanding transformed how I work with clients and how I approach my own life.

I would say invest in your belief programming or your emotional health. Find somebody who has a program - not just someone who asks 'how are you feeling?' and then works on how you're feeling. When you go into a healer or therapist, most don't have a structured approach. What distinguishes me from all the rest is I have a detailed questionnaire that asks about their upbringing, and we find out all the things that cause trauma. Until you're 6 or 7 or 8, everything that happens around you that's traumatic or upsetting, kids blame it on themselves - if I was good enough, this wouldn't have happened, if I was good enough my parents wouldn't have gotten divorced. I go and clear the trauma and the sabotaging beliefs that were created as a youth, and that's why it's so effective and so fast. How you feel now is because of your belief program that you got as a child. So for somebody starting out, invest in your personal development. Some kids are raised by emotionally healthy parents and those are usually the ones that are successful, but if you weren't, you need to do this work.

There are always people who have problems - people struggling in their marriages, in their relationships, with how they communicate. People aren't taught how to communicate properly. When you have a problem, you don't say 'you're an asshole', you say 'when this happened, I felt this way' - you use 'I' instead of 'you'. There's a lot of work that can be done in having healthy boundaries, being generous but not over-generous, and staying away from toxic people. There are hundreds of things that people can learn depending on their situation, their upbringing, and their own belief programming. The challenge is that most people are not interested in doing personal development work. I don't know what the percentage is, but it's huge - maybe only 5 or 10% of people are really like 'oh, you could help me? That'd be great, let's do it.' Some people have subconscious limiting beliefs like 'it's safe for me to know the truth about my family' or 'it's safe for me to get empowered' that are blocking them. My ultimate goal is to offer a year-long course where I can teach my system to other coaches and healers.

Integrity, authenticity, compassion, empathy, joy, physical and mental health, and spending quality time with my husband are most important to me. I'm also very passionate about health freedom and standing up for what I believe in, even when it means being a black sheep. During COVID, I was very vocal about being cautious regarding the vaccines, and friends insulted me and wouldn't see me because I didn't have the vaccine. But I did not care if I was a black sheep - I stayed true to my beliefs, and I am still healthy and never got sick. I support organizations like the Children's Health Defense because I believe in protecting people's health. At 75, I'm focused on myself and my husband now, staying active and competitive in tennis and pickleball, and helping people through my coaching work when they're ready to do the personal development work.