Nicole Stanley, MS
Nicki Stanley, MS is the Founder and Owner of The Keys Etiquette Consulting, where she specializes in professional presence, leadership development, and confidence-building training for emerging professionals and adults. With a background in organizational leadership and 20+ years of experience coaching and mentoring collegiate students, Nicki brings a unique blend of strategy, empathy, and real-world insight to her work. She is passionate about equipping individuals with the communication skills, social and emotional intelligence, and professional polish needed to thrive in today’s competitive environments. Before launching her consulting firm, Nicki built a strong foundation in coaching and student development, earning multiple honors for excellence in leadership and coaching. Her experience guiding student-athletes and mentoring young leaders naturally evolved into a broader mission: helping individuals navigate interviews, corporate culture, networking events, and leadership opportunities with confidence and authenticity. She holds a Master of Science in Organizational Leadership and Development from Wheeling University and a Bachelor of Science in Exercise Physiology from Fairmont State University. Deeply engaged in her community, Nicki serves in leadership roles within professional and philanthropic organizations, including the Columbus Area Panhellenic Association, Alpha Sigma Tau National Sorority, and Junior League of Columbus. She believes that kindness, respect, and strong communication form the foundation of both personal and professional success. Through her work, Nicki is committed to empowering the next generation to step forward with confidence, clarity, and purpose.
• Certified Etiquette Consultant
• Wheeling University – Master of Science (MS), Organizational Leadership and Development
• Fairmont State University- Bachelor of Science, Exercise Science
• Men's Coaching Staff of the Year 2010
• Men's Coaching Staff of the Year 2011
• Men's Coaching Staff of the Year 2017
• 2x Collegiate Top Tau Award Winner – Alpha Sigma Tau
• Junior League of Columbus
• Alpha Sigma Tau National Sorority
• Columbus Alumnae Panhellenic Association
• Alpha Sigma Tau National Sorority
• Columbus Area Panhellenic Association
• Junior League of Columbus
What do you attribute your success to?
It sounds simple, but every experience has contributed to where I am now. Between continuing education, coaching, event coordinating, and various leadership positions, I feel prepared to operate my own business.
What advice would you give to young women entering your industry?
Stay positive and keep looking forward. Trust that every experience you have — even if it doesn’t seem directly connected at the time — is shaping your future. I never initially envisioned founding an etiquette consulting company, but my background in coaching, event coordinating and management, and leadership ultimately led me here. Choose growth, stay open to opportunities, and trust that your experiences are guiding you toward your purpose.
What are the biggest challenges or opportunities in your field right now?
One of the biggest challenges is that etiquette and professional skills education are not as commonly taught anymore. Many young professionals are entering the workforce without foundational knowledge in communication, professionalism, and interpersonal skills. However, this also presents a tremendous opportunity. There is a clear and growing need for etiquette coaching, particularly for young adults transitioning into corporate environments. Additionally, as I build my business, forming partnerships with colleges and corporations provides a meaningful opportunity to expand access to professional development and confidence-building training.
What values are most important to you in your work and personal life?
Social and emotional intelligence and strong communication skills are central to both my professional and personal life. In my work, I focus on fostering kindness, respect, and consideration, helping individuals navigate social and professional environments with confidence. I believe that smooth, thoughtful interactions are foundational to success. These same values guide my personal relationships and the way I engage with my community.