How Women Found Their Identity After Letting Go Of Old Labels
Personal stories from women who stepped beyond the identities they had outgrown.
Personal stories from women who stepped beyond the identities they had outgrown.
For many years, my identity was tied to a title. In Kosovo, I was known as a journalist; visible, established, and confident in who I was. That role shaped me, and for a long time I believed it defined me. But everything changed when I immigrated to the United States. Suddenly, I went from being "the journalist" to starting over in housekeeping because it was the only job I could get. It wasn't just a change in career. It felt like my entire identity had been erased. The label I had to let go of was the belief that my worth depended on a title. Releasing that identity was painful, but it was also the beginning of my transformation. As I rebuilt my life, I discovered that my true identity wasn't in what I used to do. It was in who I was becoming. I found strength in resilience, dignity in starting over, and purpose in lifting others who walk a similar path. I embraced a new identity rooted in values: Kindness, courage, leadership, and the determination to rise no matter how many times life asks me to start again. Today, as an Area Vice President and a mentor to immigrant women and emerging leaders, I lead with the heart of a woman who rebuilt herself from the inside out. Letting go of old labels didn't diminish me. It freed me to become the woman I was meant to be.