Do you have "Hamilton (the musical) Syndrome"?
Embracing the Drive for More While Finding Contentment in What Is
You want a really great question that can spark some seriously cool, meaningful conversation? I was asked this question recently, and my answer surprised even me.
Have you ever gotten what you wanted and found that it did not satisfy you?
I have self-diagnosed myself with “Hamilton Syndrome” because I’ll never be satisfied. Did you start singing the song? I hope so.
If not, let me help you out. In the musical Hamilton, there’s a song (and multiple references) about how Alexander Hamilton always does more, learns more, writes more, and wants more—how he will never be satisfied with the status quo. It’s a point of contention with his wife. Even upon reaching a new achievement or success, he never rests or settles into it. He moves on to the next challenge.
I identify with that deeply.
I think it’s the force behind a lot of my strongest qualities—ambition, hard work, drive, determination, resilience, and lifelong learning. I also see it reflected in my stubbornness, restlessness, impatience, and the way it can sometimes dampen joy or contentment. So, like many human traits, there are two sides to the coin.
So yes, I’ll probably always want more. I’ll never be content with the status quo. I’ll always seek to level up. And I’m okay with that.
In fact, I’ve built an entire company around it. As a speaker and leadership coach, I specialize in women’s professional development. I literally teach women skills to help them level up in public speaking, confidence, physical presence, and leadership. And it’s awesome.
The growth moment for me has been learning that wanting more doesn’t mean dismissing what is already enough.
For my fellow “Hamilton Syndrome” friends…
- How do you celebrate your wins?
- How do you stay present in the moment?
- How do you see this showing up in your life, your work, or your relationships?
