Rising Through the Work
From Government Service to Empowerment: How One Woman Built Phoenix Angel Consulting on Resilience and Rising
I started my state career the same summer I graduated from the University of Washington and got married at twenty-two. I was young, determined, and fiercely committed to building stability—not just for myself, but for the life I believed I was stepping into. My first role at the Department of Ecology was humble and the beginning of everything.
I didn't have a roadmap. I had grit. I had curiosity. And I had the instinct to learn from every single person I encountered: supervisors, colleagues, field staff, administrators. I watched how people led, how they communicated, how they solved problems, and how they built trust. I absorbed all of it. Those early years taught me the most important lesson of my career: If you stay open, you rise.
Climbing the Ladder One Hard-Earned Step at a Time
I clawed my way up the chain—not through shortcuts, but through consistency, reliability, and the quiet kind of leadership that people notice even when you're not trying to be noticed. I built a reputation for being the person who could handle complexity, connect people, and bring calm to chaotic systems.
That reputation followed me when I moved to WSDOT, where my work ethic and systems thinking opened doors I never expected. Eventually, leadership saw something in me that I hadn't yet seen in myself: potential for more.
That's how I earned the opportunity to pursue my Master's degree, fully supported by the agency. It was one of the most validating moments of my professional life. It told me: Your work matters. Your growth matters. You matter.
But the timing of that opportunity collided with one of the hardest chapters of my personal life.
The Quiet Storm Behind the Scenes
While I was attending graduate school, I was also navigating a relationship with my husband that was unraveling in ways I didn't yet have the language to describe. I was studying leadership, systems, and organizational clarity while living in a personal environment that was the opposite of all three. I kept going. I kept studying. I kept showing up. I kept holding everything together. But holding everything together eventually becomes its own breaking point.
After filling out and filing protection order paperwork, being granted a temporary protection order, and reclaiming my home as a space for me and my children to heal, everything began to shift in my life. The quiet struggle of getting emotionally beaten down every day and choosing to get up the next morning to show up for myself, my boys, and my colleagues, with kindness and determination to make the world a better place, is why I am standing tall today.
The Moment Everything Changed
My turning point didn't come from a dramatic event. It came from a quiet realization: I couldn't keep living small inside a life that demanded I shrink. I finally spoke up. I finally reached out. I finally asked for help. And when I did, something extraordinary happened: women showed up for me. Not one woman. Not one friend. A community.
Women who listened. Women who believed me. Women who held space. Women who offered resources. Women who reminded me who I was. Women who helped me rebuild.
I didn't escape that chapter alone. I walked out of it with a circle of women who taught me that strength isn't isolation; it's connection. Their support didn't just help me survive. It helped me transform.
The Birth of Phoenix Angel and the Woman I Became
Out of that transformation came Phoenix Angel Consulting (PAC). PAC isn't a business. PAC is a declaration. It's the embodiment of everything I've learned:
- how to rise from difficult chapters
- how to build systems that support real life
- how to align identity with purpose
- how to create clarity in chaos
- how to help others find their voice the way I found mine
PAC is the professional expression of my personal rebirth. It's the place where my state career, my education, my lived experience, and my resilience converge.
It's the next chapter—not born from pain, but from power.
Where I Stand Today
Today, I am:
- a WSDOT leader
- a systems strategist
- a mother
- a survivor
- a builder
- a consultant
- a woman who speaks up
- a woman who asks for support
- a woman who rises
- a woman who helps others rise
PAC is the continuation of that rise, a way to turn everything I've lived through into something that helps others find clarity, alignment, and momentum.
This is my new beginning. And I'm finally ready for it.
