The Power of Starting Over
How I rebuilt my life, career, and confidence—more than once.
I was bartending at two jobs while double-majoring in Nuclear Medicine and Radiology, living alone in Corpus Christi, Texas. Those were some of the most carefree days of my life—sunsets on the beach, late nights with friends, independence, and the excitement of building a future I had carefully planned.
Then I received a phone call that changed everything.
My mother’s health was declining in Ohio, and she needed me. In an instant, the life I had built no longer felt as important as the life that had built me. I sold nearly everything I owned, quit my jobs, withdrew from college, and drove across the country to start over—unsure of what would come next, but certain I was making the right decision.
Starting over was harder than I expected. I re-enrolled in college, but my original major wasn’t offered locally, and not all of my credits transferred. The plan I had mapped out so carefully no longer existed. I had to choose a new path and trust that it would still lead somewhere meaningful.
After graduating, I entered the world of travel ultrasound and spent four years on the road. I loved the work, the patients, and the sense of purpose it gave me. But life shifted again when I became a mother. While trying to build a home and a future for my son, I found myself traveling out of state, searching for closets to pump milk between cases, and struggling to prove steady income to a home lender. The career I once loved began to feel unsustainable. My priorities had changed.
So, I pivoted.
I accepted a local corporate position in a completely different field. What began as an assistant role grew into a senior account manager position over more than a decade. I exceeded sales goals, built lasting relationships, and found pride in the stability I created for my family. After ten years, it felt less like a job and more like a second home.
Then, on my first day back after Christmas break, I was called into a meeting and told the company had to make budget cuts. My position had been eliminated.
Just like that, another chapter ended.
The shock was overwhelming. After pouring ten years into building my career there, I was left asking myself who I was without it. But somewhere beneath the fear was a quiet voice reminding me of something I had already proven multiple times in my life: I know how to start over.
This time, instead of scrambling to find another position, I made a different choice. I chose myself.
I leaned into the skills I had developed over the years—sales strategy, relationship building, branding, resilience. I invested in courses, spent late nights researching, joined entrepreneurial communities, and built something that was fully mine. I launched not one, but two online stores—businesses rooted in the freedom, flexibility, and ownership I had long desired.
For the first time, I wasn’t rebuilding because I had to. I was building because I believed I could.
Looking back, I see that every pivot prepared me for the next. Leaving Texas taught me courage. Changing majors taught me adaptability. Travel healthcare taught me discipline. Motherhood taught me priorities. Corporate America taught me strategy. And being laid off taught me faith.
If there is one thing my journey has shown me, it’s this: starting over is not a sign of failure—it is often the birthplace of reinvention.
To the woman standing at a crossroads, grieving a version of life that no longer exists—trust that you are not behind. You are being redirected. The courage to begin again may feel terrifying, but it is also where your greatest growth lives.
Sometimes the most influential decision you will ever make is choosing to believe in yourself—especially when everything else falls away.
And every time I have started over, I have found a stronger version of myself waiting on the other side.
