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We Are Enough!

Finding worth beyond achievement through somatic healing and self-acceptance.

I Always Felt Like I Had to Do More to Be Enough

It's ironic because I volunteer for an organization that advertises the words, "You are enough." I thought I believed them myself.

I have been through years of therapy—more than a decade in total. I've had a few different therapists, with my last and current therapist being the most influential. My previous therapist retired; otherwise, I wouldn't have switched. I have completed countless types of therapy, each one slowly piecing me back together.

But I still felt like I needed more.

Then my new therapist introduced me to somatic healing. It takes a keen sense of self-awareness, which my previous therapy had prepared me for. It took me out of my mind and into my body.

I had been avoiding what my body was telling me without even realizing it.

So I started to listen.

After therapy sessions, I expressed my emotions. I shook. I cried. I slept. And now, I feel better than ever.

I pay attention to the energy throughout my body. I'm still on this healing journey, and I am so grateful for it.

As I heal, I no longer feel the need to do it all. I'm putting my energy into what aligns with my values. I say "no" more often. I rest without feeling guilty.

I finally feel content.

I don't need to constantly work toward my next achievement to feel like I'm enough.

After years of childhood neglect and abuse, I have learned to love myself unconditionally. I don't feel like I need to prove myself to anyone.

My worth isn't measured by my accomplishments.

I am worthy simply because I am me.

Because I exist.

Because I am a child of God.

And the same goes for you.


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About the Author Courtney Sledge Founder & CEO, Sledge Legacy Group

Courtney Sledge is an MBA-trained entrepreneur, insurance professional, and community leader dedicated to financial education, protection, and empowerment. As the founder of Sledge Legacy Group, she helps individuals and families explore financial protection options and build lasting legacies, with a particular commitment to increasing financial education and access for marginalized and underserved communities. Her…

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