Sports as teacher
How Tennis Shaped My Character and Taught Me the Blueprint for Life Success
I started playing tennis when I was four years old. What began as an afternoon activity with my older brother quickly became something more. By the time I turned nine, I realized that tennis was my passion and that I wanted to pursue it seriously. Tennis became my lifestyle. I dedicated countless hours and immense effort to the sport because my interest only grew the more I played. Even though it wasn’t always rainbows and flowers, I only wanted to play more.
I began competing in tournaments all over Venezuela, my home country. I won some and lost many. Along the way, I had the opportunity to represent my country multiple times throughout South America and Europe. Finally, at seventeen, after years of hard work and dedication, I earned a full scholarship to play college tennis in the United States. I went on to earn both my undergraduate degree and my MBA, and today I am dedicated to coaching tennis.
My entire life has revolved around tennis—but tennis is more than just a sport. That is the message I want to share with you today. Tennis taught me how to navigate life. It showed me that success requires hard work, especially when things are not going well. Through tennis, I built meaningful relationships with teammates and coaches. I developed habits and values such as discipline, perseverance, and grit.
For those who may not enjoy sports, you still encounter pressure, success, failure, anxiety, and hard work every day—at work, at home, and in relationships. The truth is that sports have the power to shape your life and reveal your character. In my case, tennis shaped my habits and revealed who I am. Sports can show you what you are made of and prepare you for the real world.
I am not saying that if you do not like sports you are unprepared for life or somehow less than those who play. What I am saying is that sports test you—physically and mentally—and help you learn how to control your mind.
Today, as a tennis coach, I emphasize to my students that you are only as good as you decide to be. This lesson applies not only in sports but also in our professional and personal lives. To build strong relationships, you must invest time, interest, and effort. To grow at work, you must practice, develop your skills, and remain committed to improvement. In sports, just as in life, time, effort, and genuine interest determine success.
In giving my life to tennis, tennis gave me a life. It helped me understand both my body and my mind, and I continue to challenge myself daily—not only through sports. Tennis gave me far more than trophies. It taught me decision-making, how to manage pressure, how to ease stress, and how to turn around matches—or situations—I once thought were already lost.
So when you are seeking new opportunities, be sure to define the time required to achieve them, the effort you must commit, and the true level of interest you have in accomplishing them.
