Her Story
About Melissa
Melissa Skiles is an accomplished educational leader, equity advocate, and inclusion specialist with extensive experience spanning the United States and the Middle East. She currently serves as Assistant Principal at De Marillac Academy, where she supports academic excellence, student development, and DEIB. Throughout her career, Melissa has been dedicated to fostering inclusive, equitable, and student-centered learning environments that empower individuals from diverse backgrounds to thrive. Prior to her current role, Melissa served as Director of Community Well-being at The Hamlin School and as Managing Director of Equity Advocate Solutions, where she provided training and strategic guidance to individuals and organizations seeking to strengthen equity and inclusion practices. Her international leadership experience also includes serving as Head of Inclusion at Dubai British School Jumeirah Park and Special Educational Needs Coordinator at GEMS American Academy Qatar as well as previous roles in teaching and school leadership in Chicago, Illinois. Recognized for her expertise in educational leadership and inclusive education, Melissa is passionate about creating systems and opportunities that support the success and belonging of every learner.
Her Interview
Ten minutes with Melissa
01What’s the best career advice you’ve ever received?
The best advice I ever received was simply to say yes before you feel ready. Early in my career I was encouraged to step into opportunities and responsibilities that stretched me beyond my comfort zone, and looking back, those moments of discomfort were where I grew the most. I think women in particular can fall into the trap of waiting until they feel fully prepared or qualified, and the truth is that confidence often comes after the leap, not before it.
02What advice would you give to young women entering your industry?
Even within a female-dominated field like education, women continue to face disproportionate barriers to advancement — with leadership roles still skewing male in many institutions. My advice would be to seek out mentors who will champion you, be intentional about pursuing leadership opportunities even when you don't feel fully ready, and never underestimate the power of building a strong professional network of other women who will celebrate and advocate for you alongside your own ambitions.
03What are the biggest challenges or opportunities in your field right now?
Meeting the diverse needs of every learner remains one of the most important and evolving challenges in education today — whether that means differentiating instruction for neurodivergent students, making curriculum culturally relevant and inclusive, or ensuring that all students feel a genuine sense of belonging. At the same time, I see this as one of the greatest opportunities our field has: when schools commit to this work thoughtfully, the benefits extend far beyond any individual student.
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