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Building Confidence Without External Validation

How she learned to trust herself before the applause arrived.

Quote Janet Gregg, President of Group Sales on Influential Women

In the world of hospitality, it's so simple. "Service Starts in Sales."

Janet Gregg, President of Group Sales, Luxury Hospitality Sales
Quote Kimberly Blumenberg, MBA, Sr. Administrative Assistant on Influential Women

I've learned that if God called you, you don't need the world's permission to walk in your assignment. I kept moving by faith even when no one understood the vision, because I'd rather have God's approval than the applause of people.

Kimberly Blumenberg, MBA, Sr. Administrative Assistant, Lutheran Services Florida
Quote Kristen Massa, Patient Care Coordinator and Office Manager on Influential Women

Battling cancer twice in my 20s taught me resilience, strength, and gratitude. After overcoming brain cancer, I realized that few challenges compare to fighting for your life, making everything else seem possible. Those experiences changed the course of my life and inspired me to help others facing difficult times. I strive to lead with compassion, motivate others to keep going, and never take a single day for granted.

Kristen Massa, Patient Care Coordinator and Office Manager, Hear Again America
Quote Larisa Perlovsky, MBA, Area Market Director on Influential Women

Believing in yourself isn't arrogance. It's a decision to keep showing up when the only evidence you have is your own conviction. Every opportunity I've created began long before anyone else believed it was possible.

Larisa Perlovsky, MBA, Area Market Director, Optimum
Quote Gabriela Mota, Operations Director on Influential Women

It only takes one person to see your potential and give you an opportunity. What you do with that opportunity, and whether you rise to meet the goals, is entirely up to you.

Gabriela Mota, Operations Director, Courtyard by Marriott
Quote Radha Balani, Expert Partner - Strategy & Leadership on Influential Women

Be led by taking the next right action, and the outcomes will take care of themselves.

Radha Balani, Expert Partner - Strategy & Leadership, Think Beyond
Quote Christine Mousel, Life Coach on Influential Women

I realized I had spent much of my life waiting for someone else to tell me I was worthy. Healing came when I stopped giving others the authority to define my worth and embraced the identity God had been offering me all along.

Christine Mousel, Life Coach, Your True Identity
Quote Kimberly Quanquin, Well-Being Consultant on Influential Women

I stopped going. I removed myself from the hamster wheel of grind and I learned to align. Life literally became nearly effortless because when you move from alignment, you move from inspired action and not just busyness. Business is often a trauma response. I've never felt better mentally, physically and spiritually than I do now. You also realize the amount of finances that were being spent on superfluous things to counteract the low-lying depression that results from "the grind" aka misalignment.

Kimberly Quanquin, Well-Being Consultant, Freelance
Quote Jacqueline Andrews, Investigations/Assessments Supervisor III on Influential Women

I stopped treating confidence like a reward I had to earn and started practicing it daily taking small actions even when I didn't feel "ready." When I realized my worth doesn't come from other people's validation, I learned to trust my progress and make decisions based on what I believe is right.

Jacqueline Andrews, Investigations/Assessments Supervisor III, DHHS-Government
Quote Brandy Petty  Clouse, Deputy Athletics Director, SWA, & Head Athletic Trainer on Influential Women

Believing in myself didn't happen because someone else finally told me I was good enough. It happened when I stopped waiting for that approval to define my worth. One of the biggest lessons I've learned is the importance of self-awareness. I took the time to honestly understand who I am, recognizing both my strengths and my weaknesses. I realized that knowing your weaknesses isn't a limitation; it's an opportunity to grow, seek support, and continue learning. At the same time, understanding your strengths gives you the confidence to lead with authenticity instead of comparison. I've also learned to keep my focus on the bigger picture. There will always be criticism, setbacks, and moments when your efforts go unnoticed. If your confidence depends on applause or validation from others, it will rise and fall with their opinions. But when your confidence is grounded in your values, your preparation, and your commitment to continuous growth, it becomes much more resilient. Over time, I realized that I don't need everyone's approval to know I'm moving in the right direction. I evaluate myself by asking, "Am I learning? Am I growing? Am I living my values? Am I making a positive impact on the people around me?" If the answer is yes, then I'm on the path I want to be on.

Brandy Petty Clouse, Deputy Athletics Director, SWA, & Head Athletic Trainer, Georgia Southern University
Quote Maria D. James, Founder and Principal Consultant on Influential Women

When you own your voice, you own your value.

Maria D. James, Founder and Principal Consultant, Blueprint Media + Strategy
Quote Maggie K Steck, Broker on Influential Women

I learned how to believe in myself many, many years ago after having to tell my mother that she needs to encourage, not discourage me. I had to prove to her and myself that I could do anything and create anything I so desired. She's been gone for many years and I'm sure she is proud of my achievements, even from the other side. Thanks, mom!

Maggie K Steck, Broker, Freedom Commercial LLC
Quote Elsa Polanco, English Teacher on Influential Women

All the difficulties that I have had to get to this point in life, I see them as challenges I have had to overcome and as learning experiences in life. I always like to give advice to younger women: Don't give up.

Elsa Polanco, English Teacher, Hunter's Creek Tutoring Center
Quote Paula C. Arias, Esq., FCiarb, International Moot court Director & Lecturer in Law on Influential Women

I keep reminding myself that I have a plan, and that with faith in myself, hard work, and consistent effort, the results will come.

Paula C. Arias, Esq., FCiarb, International Moot court Director & Lecturer in Law, University of Miami, School of Law
Quote Dr. Julia Gaines, Assistant Principal on Influential Women

I don't let the volume of the opinion of others become louder than the voice of the One who created me. I know my identity is rooted in purpose rather than praise, that is why I have the courage to keep moving forward, even when no one is applauding.

Dr. Julia Gaines, Assistant Principal, East Lake Academy