There was a moment I realized I didn't have to carry everything alone. Letting myself ask for help felt both scary and liberating. Vulnerability didn't make me weak—it deepened my relationships, allowed others to show care, and taught me that true strength sometimes lies in leaning on others. Which gave me the consistency, faith, determination, and the choice to never quit.

I learned many years ago that it was perfectly acceptable to ask questions and seek help. I realized that if I remained silent, I would be perpetually at a disadvantage. This realization was particularly pertinent when my husband decided to file for divorce in 2017. I had to acknowledge to myself that I didn't always have to be strong and that I could ask for support.