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The Season She Almost Gave Up

What convinced her to keep going when quitting seemed easier.

Quote Lori Croy, APR, Founder and Principal on Influential Women

I decided I was happiest when doing private consulting and mentoring work. During a conversation with a friend, she asked when I was going to invest in myself as much as I invested in everyone else. That was when I decided to invest in the dream of owning my own business instead of walking away because I was afraid to take a risk.

Lori Croy, APR, Founder and Principal, Mentor PR
Quote Candace Singh, Director, Writer, Producer, and Financier on Influential Women

Just because today isn't your day doesn't mean your day isn't coming. Success isn't about speed; it's about refusing to quit. Keep showing up. Your time will come.

Candace Singh, Director, Writer, Producer, and Financier, Emerald Tree Filmworks LLC
Quote Shandrika S. May, Life Strategist | Author & Coach on Influential Women

I almost gave up in the season when I had done everything right, healed, surrendered, trusted, and still found myself with nothing of my own. What kept me going was the unshakeable knowing that God doesn't waste prepared women; my season of waiting is not a sign that I missed it. It's proof that what's coming required everything I went through to carry it.

Shandrika S. May, Life Strategist | Author & Coach, Life Strategies with Shandrika
Quote Marianna Chrysiliou, WDS, CAGS, MBPsS, MAEd, BA, CASAC 2, Assistant Director of Behavioral Health Services on Influential Women

What kept me going were the people I serve. Watching someone who once felt hopeless celebrate their recovery, reunite with their family, or begin believing in themselves again reminded me why I chose this work. Those moments became my fuel. They showed me that even when progress isn't immediate, every conversation, every act of compassion, and every opportunity to support another person matters. I also realized that leadership isn't about having all the answers or never feeling discouraged. It's about showing up with integrity, leading with empathy, and continuing to believe in the mission even when the path is difficult. The hardest seasons taught me resilience, strengthened my confidence, and reminded me that purpose is often born through perseverance.

Marianna Chrysiliou, WDS, CAGS, MBPsS, MAEd, BA, CASAC 2, Assistant Director of Behavioral Health Services, Center for Community Alternatives
Quote Lenore A. Brinson, Executive Director on Influential Women

There was a season when the weight of leadership, uncertainty, and setbacks made walking away seem like the easier choice. I kept going because I realized my purpose was never about my comfort, it was about the people who needed someone to keep showing up for them. I almost gave up when I questioned whether I belonged in the rooms I had worked so hard to enter. Then I realized I wasn't meant to fit someone else's mold. I was meant to lead as my authentic self, and that's when everything changed. I've learned that the moments that make you want to quit are often the same moments preparing you for your greatest impact. I stayed because I wanted my story to become someone else's proof that perseverance is worth it.

Lenore A. Brinson, Executive Director, Florida Epilepsy Services/Epilepsy Foundation of FL
Quote Shae Pratcher, CEO and Founder on Influential Women

I almost gave up because I was exhausted, burned out, and questioning everything, but I realized the life I was praying for would never be found by staying in the place that was breaking me. It is what it is… until you DO something different… and that one decision changed the trajectory of my life.

Shae Pratcher, CEO and Founder, Showering Seeds of Growth LLC
Quote Chandra Lynn, MBA, CEO  / Coach / Author on Influential Women

After losing a loved one, I questioned whether I had the energy to keep building my personal development methodology, Root-to-Rise. What kept me going was realizing that purpose isn't measured by how quickly success arrives. It's more about whether you're willing to keep planting seeds that could change someone else's life long after you're gone.

Chandra Lynn, MBA, CEO / Coach / Author, Glow Marketing LLC & Glow Living
Quote Monique McCloud, JD-MBA, SPHR, Senior Human Resources Executive on Influential Women

It's never over. It's the conclusion of a stage, phase, or chapter. But it's never the end. You have an infinite capacity to start again; to start over.

Monique McCloud, JD-MBA, SPHR, Senior Human Resources Executive, STRATEGIC LEADERSHIP & COACHING
Quote April Knapp - Scott, Founder and Director on Influential Women

I've walked through many seasons where giving up felt easier than pressing on. Yet God always uses a life touched through one of our events or community outreach efforts to remind me that this calling is bigger than my struggles and that's why I can never give up.

April Knapp - Scott, Founder and Director, Sunshine Creations Co.
Quote Jennifer Howell, Real Estate Agent and Women's Reinvention Coach on Influential Women

There was no other option for me but to rebuild. I had to change my mindset and go all in on myself. I decided I'm worth loving too.

Jennifer Howell, Real Estate Agent and Women's Reinvention Coach, Win with Jen
Quote Jessica R Sawyer, Partner - Regional Tax Practice Leader on Influential Women

There have been many instances where walking away feels easier than pushing through. The demands of family, professional and personal obligations often overlap and feel overwhelming. Balance or integration of professional and personal obligations can often feel like you are at war with yourself. Ultimately you push through by sheer will and determination to show up and put out one fire at a time. There is nothing more powerful than stubborn refusal to stop because it's hard.

Jessica R Sawyer, Partner - Regional Tax Practice Leader, Citrin Cooperman Advisors LLC
Quote Valli Dologlou, Senior Technical Program Manager on Influential Women

The closest I came to walking away was during a challenging period navigating a difficult professional dynamic, while also being the person my team looked to for guidance. What kept me going was stepping back, honestly assessing the worst-case scenario and preparing for it. Once I had a plan and made peace with the possibility, the fear and the urge to take the easy way out began to fade. That clarity grounded me and helped me stay true to my values, move forward with confidence, and deliver strong results. The experience reinforced a principle that has always guided me: every setback is an opportunity to learn, grow, and avoid making the same mistake twice. It strengthened my belief that we shouldn't fear failure itself but only the lessons we fail to learn from it.

Valli Dologlou, Senior Technical Program Manager, Microsoft
Quote Simran Padam, MD, APMMC, Founder & CEO | Executive Director of Medical Affairs - Oncology on Influential Women

There was a time when I almost convinced myself that doing great work quietly was enough. However, I realized that expertise creates its greatest impact when it's shared, because your voice may be exactly what someone else needs to take their next step.

Simran Padam, MD, APMMC, Founder & CEO | Executive Director of Medical Affairs - Oncology, Padamology Consulting | Worldwide Clinical Trials
Quote Nicole Roberts, Director of Human Resources and Communications on Influential Women

One of the biggest professional disappointments of my career felt like the end of everything I had worked for. Looking back, it wasn't the end of my story; it was the catalyst for becoming the person and leader I was always meant to become.

Nicole Roberts, Director of Human Resources and Communications, Continuum Behavioral Health & Recovery Services
Quote Courtney Villapando, Founder on Influential Women

The season I almost gave up. It was just one year since I was laid off from my job, and now I was facing a serious surgery. I had pushed the hardest I ever had for my business in that year, and I wasn't seeing the fruits of my labor. With little to no revenue coming in, I started searching for jobs again. Little did I know, that forced pause was a blessing in disguise. Having surgery gave me the time to reflect, reset, and learn how to build my business from a place of peace rather than panic. The very next quarter became my highest-earning yet. I was honored with an award, invited for interviews, was recognized by Influential Women, and got to work with some incredible clients.

Courtney Villapando, Founder, CVilla Design
Quote Dawn Stastny, SPHR, SHRM-SCP, Chief Human Resources Officer and Compliance Officer on Influential Women

There was a season when the weight of constant battles, difficult decisions, and personal sacrifice made walking away seem easier than pressing on. I didn't give up because I realized the people who believed in me, the leaders I was still building, and the legacy I wanted to leave behind were worth one more day, every single day.

Dawn Stastny, SPHR, SHRM-SCP, Chief Human Resources Officer and Compliance Officer, BelPak
Quote Liliya Sablukova, Chief Financial Officer (CFO) on Influential Women

There were moments when the climb felt overwhelming, and I questioned whether I was capable of reaching the next level. What kept me going was the belief that every obstacle was shaping me into the leader I was meant to become—and that one day my journey would inspire someone else to believe they could reach their own summit.

Liliya Sablukova, Chief Financial Officer (CFO), Lakewood Ranch Inter-District Authority
Quote Angela Irizarry, Case Manager II on Influential Women

The season I almost gave up became the season I rose. I could not control what happened to me, but I controlled how I responded, and that changed everything.

Angela Irizarry, Case Manager II, National Center for Missing & Exploited Children